Month: April 2010

Diverse options available for those traveling to Israel

JERUSALEM?Many Christians would cherish the opportunity to travel to Israel and visit the places where our Lord Jesus Christ walked, taught, died and rose again. Such a trip, which some say is akin to a spiritual journey, takes much prayer, money, and preparation.

Unless, of course, you’re a Southern Baptist TEXAN reporter and you get a mid-afternoon call that goes something like this:

Editor: “Hi, Bonnie. I have a proposition for you.”

Me: “Sure. Whatcha got?”

Editor: “How would you like to go to Israel? You don’t have to pay anything. The Israel Ministry of Tourism (IMOT) is sponsoring a press junket and I can’t go so I thought I’d ask you?. And I need to know this afternoon if you can go.”

Me: “Uhhh.”

Such was the beginning of my whirlwind tour of the land of our Lord. I made the list of 12 evangelical writers and broadcasters invited on the trip. By March 6 our party was en route to Tel Aviv, all but one of us being a first-time visitor to Israel. The entire trip was a sprint to see as much as possible in as little time as possible, racing against an unseen clock that would time out before we, as reporters, could confirm that the tomb was, indeed, empty.

Atop Mount Carmel (Actually, atop the gift shop of the monastery whose monks tend the site) I briefly reflected on one of my favorite Old Testament stories: Elijah vs. the prophets of Baal. The tourist-condensed version went something like this: “God 1, prophets of Baal 0. God wins. Everyone, back on the bus!”

There is so much of spiritual and historical significance to see in Israel that one could easily lose sight of them by focusing on the schedule. But in the end, I was thankful for that bus and our very able and long-suffering guide, Rivka Cohen-Berman.
Those whose business and pleasure it is to organize tours to Israel recommend first-time travelers not on a press junket utilize the experience and money-saving expertise of tour agencies or well-established individuals who regularly host travels to Israel.

To make the most of your time in the Promised Land, Joe Diaz, a U.S. regional representative for IMOT, highly recommends traveling with a tour group. First-time visitors can just concentrate on enjoying the sights and experiences without concerning themselves with the minutiae, delegating day-to-day details of transportation, food, and accommodations.

Although some people would rather not travel with a group, the trade-off of solitude for convenience and a lower price could make a bus ride with strangers-soon-to-be-friends more palatable, especially if you think you might return to Israel. And, Diaz said, Israel is one of the most frequently revisited countries. Those who make frequent trips with a tour group are then better suited to travel on their own or with a smaller group of family and friends. But for an introductory visit, it’s much more affordable when you go with a group.

“The guide alone is $300 a day,” he said.

Tony Derrick, president of Ideal Travel and Tours in Dallas, said the costs are shared by the group and therefore go down as the size of the group goes up. One tour bus can hold 50 passengers, but ideally, he said, the number in a group should be between 20-30 people.

“Most of our clients are first-time and probably only-time [travelers to Israel],” Derrick said. “They want to see and experience the things they’ve read in the Bible. This is a pilgrim journey, a completion of their biblical education.”
With that in mind the tours are arranged to stop at many places where the stories of the Bible unfolded.

The president of Pilgrim Tours, David Nyce, concurred that traveling with a tour group provides the best opportunity to educate oneself about the land of Jesus. The company caters to predominantly Baptist and evangelical groups and the devotionals given at each site add to the depth of spiritual and academic knowledge that a traveler takes home.

Leading the way on all bus tours are guides trained and certified by the State of Israel. They can be Jewish, Arab, or Christian. Each adds his own unique perspective to the trip?within prescribed limits?offering new information for repeat travelers who will most likely get a different guide on a return trip. Pilgrim tours, though, has an established relationship with a pool of guides who are Messianic believers.

Although all tours require travelers to be in good health?there is a great deal of walking, climbing stairs, and, on occasion, squeezing through ancient water ways?some groups go off the beaten bus path in order to feel the parch of their throat after days in the desert and the grit on their face and hands from digging for long-lost civilizations.

Jim Sibley, director of the Pasche Institute for Jewish Studies and associate professor of Jewish ministry at Criswell College in Dallas, takes regular trips to the country as part of ongoing archaeological projects associated with Criswell College. A group is leaving in May for a two-week project at a site near Qumran, the region where the Dead Sea Scrolls were discovered.

Sibley said there will be some opportunity for sightseeing but most of their time will be spent on archaeological work.
For those who want to go even farther off the bus path can hike the lands of Scripture with GTI Tours. A hike leaves mid-April led by Houston-area pastor Brian Haynes, a Southern Baptist. The company coordinates study tours throughout the biblical lands. Travelers have little more than a backpack and a Bible.

“It’s intense,” Haynes said. “I think I teach 50 times in 10 days. The hikes are brutal?it’s physical, spiritual, emotional.”

But Haynes added, he has never had a more spiritually rewarding experience in his life.

That’s worth getting off the bus.

SBTC communicators win awards

CHICAGO ? Members of the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention’s communications team received awards from the Baptist Communicators Association during the group’s annual workshop, held April 6-9 in Chicago.

Russell Lightner, the convention’s graphic artist, won second-place honors in the design division, news and information category, for his design of “Cm Elements,” a booklet promoting the services of the SBTC’s Church Ministries department.

Jerry Pierce, communications associate and managing editor of the Southern Baptist TEXAN, won second place in the feature writing division, single article (newspaper or newsletter), for the story “Given slim hope, burn victim beating odds” (Dec. 28, 2009 TEXAN).

Also, Lightner and Pierce accepted the first-place award in the design division, state Baptist newspapers, for the Southern Baptist TEXAN.

The judging panel included 19 communications professionals from news organizations such as Reuters and Crosswalk.com, from churches, design firms, and from university faculties. Awards were given in public relations and development, interactive communications, audio-visual communications, photography, news and feature writing, and design.

IMB unlikely to appoint missionaries in North America, Rankin says

NASHVILLE ? The proposal of the Great Commission Resurgence Task Force to remove geographical barriers preventing the International Mission Board from working with unreached people groups “on American soil” will not likely result in missionaries being assigned stateside, nor will it result in churches planted by IMB personnel, said IMB President Jerry Rankin.

For the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention, the proposal is nothing new. The Texas Missions Initiative (TxMI) launched by the SBTC last year includes the priority of reaching the rising number of unreached people groups (UPGs) and immigrant groups to the state by assigning people group missionaries to work with specific ethno-linguistic people groups.

In an interview with the Florida Baptist Witness, Rankin said he supports Component 3 of the GCRTF progress report made to the Southern Baptist Convention’s Executive Committee, Feb. 22, which asks “Southern Baptists to entrust to the International Mission Board the ministry to reach the unreached and under-served people groups without regard to any geographic limitations.”

Rankin said, however, there should not be an expectation that the IMB will place missionaries throughout the United States because “it’s a matter of proportion” and indigenous strategies. Instead, the soon-to-be-retiring president said he envisions the IMB’s primary role will be to mobilize, train, equip and mentor local churches, associations, state conventions and the North American Mission Board.

“It will be a partnership,” Rankin said. “It’s not an exclusive role that the IMB is going to do for Southern Baptists in this assignment. Our role is to facilitate, enable all Southern Baptists to fulfill the Great Commission, and so that’s how I would anticipate our approaching this aspect of the Great Commission task in America.”

Although the progress report indicates the GCRTF is “unleashing the International Mission Board upon American soil,” Rankin said NAMB and others have already encouraged IMB to help them reach ethnic and other peoples in the states.

“I don’t see this really as very radical. I don’t see it as conflicting and overlapping of turf with North American Mission Board, a potential conflict as some had conjectured,” Rankin said. He noted IMB and NAMB administrators and boards already meet twice a year to collaborate on some efforts.

UNENGAGED AND UNREACHED PEOPLE GROUPS

Rankin said the top priority for the IMB is the Unengaged Unreached People Groups (UUPG), of which there are 41 with a population of more than a million and 469 with a population of more than 100,000. These groups have no access to churches, other Christians, Scripture or Christian resources in their heart language ? and no mission agency.

The GCRTF believes a new synergy can be created in international missions as the SBC makes use of IMB expertise. “Most of the 586 people groups that do not speak English in the United States have strategy coordinators working overseas with the same groups,” stated GCRTF chairman Ronnie Floyd in making his report.

Among UPGs, Rankin said, less than 2 percent of the population is born again, and there is no active church planting movement or gospel witness for the remaining 98 percent. Of 11,000 people groups throughout the world, over 4,000 are considered unreached.

Considering the hundreds of UUPGs around the world who have no access to the gospel, and over 4,000 UPGs who have limited exposure to the gospel, Rankin said he is positive about the proposed new strategy.

Citing prolific work among immigrant groups in the U.S., such as Vietnamese, Hispanics, Slavs and Haitians, Rankin said the state conventions “don’t have the capacity, the focus” to reach other people groups that are less populous. “They really don’t have the training or the expertise in those cultural worldviews that we would have,” he said.

As an example of the type of training the IMB could provide for North American missions, Rankin noted the “Great Commission

GCR Task Force: Move CP promotion from Nashville to the state conventions

NASHVILLE?There’s no denying that Southern Baptists individually, corporately and as a denomination are lagging in their stewardship of God’s resources. While the Great Commission Resurgence Task Force recommends shifting primary responsibility for Cooperative Program and stewardship promotion to state conventions, task force chairman Ronnie Floyd is counting on local pastors to teach their members to honor God through tithing.

“Remember, the only people who ever get offended with the declaration of biblical stewardship are the ones who give little to nothing at all to your church,” Floyd said in the news conference that followed the release of the task force interim report.

“Christians need to repent of the sin of not honoring God with at least the first-tenth of their income,” Floyd reminded. “Can you imagine the spiritual revival that would consume our churches if God’s people would obey God in giving? Can you imagine the opportunities of advancing the gospel regionally, nationally, and globally if God’s people would obey God in giving?”

Seeking to discover “how Southern Baptists can work more faithfully and effectively together in serving Christ through the Great Commission,” the task force analyzed the means of funding that effort and reaffirmed the Cooperative Program as the preferred means of giving.

Early proponents of a Great Commission Resurgence called on Southern Baptists to cut a larger piece of the Cooperative Program pie for the International Mission Board in order to see more dollars sent overseas and appealed to state conventions to keep fewer dollars for in-state use. While recommending the IMB’s share increase by 1 percent, a move Floyd called “symbolic,” the task force chose to trust state conventions with more responsibility for stewardship and CP promotion.

Component 4 of the task force progress report states:

“We believe in order for us to work together more faithfully and effectively towards the fulfillment of the Great Commission, we will ask Southern Baptists to move the ministry assignments of Cooperative Program promotion and stewardship education from the Executive Committee of the Southern Baptist Convention and return them to being the work of each state convention since they are located closer to our churches. Our call is for the state conventions to reassume their primary role in the promotion of the Cooperative Program and stewardship education, while asking the Executive Committee of the Southern Baptist Convention to support these efforts with enthusiasm and a convention-wide perspective.”

The SBC’s Executive Committee did not welcome the recommendation. In a March 11 historical review of CP promotion, stewardship education and the SBC, EC Convention Relations Vice President Roger S. Oldham offered a 10-page rebuttal of verbiage he called “potentially misleading.” (Visit baptist2baptist.net/issues/gcr/rso-03-19-10.asp for the complete text of the white paper.)


Concerned that Southern Baptists could infer from the words “return” and “reassume” that CP promotion and stewardship education “were once ministry assignments entrusted to the states,” Oldham said CP promotion has been a joint venture of the SBC and state conventions since its inception in 1925 “with the responsibility for strategy development uniformly assigned to the SBC, and the ‘field’ responsibilities consistently shared with our state convention ministry partners.”

Based on his defense of the SBC’s “right and responsibility” to promote CP and engage in stewardship education (including the decade when LifeWay Christian Resources had the stewardship assignment), Oldham argued the adoption of Component 4 would be the first time in SBC history “that the Convention will have assigned away its rights, role, and responsibility to promote funding and support for its ministries of international missions, North American missions, theological education, and moral advocacy, each of which is rightly under its purview.”

In making the case for giving state conventions primary responsibility for both assignments, Floyd said in his Feb. 22 presentation, “History shows that we have struggled with where to place both of these assignments in order to serve our churches more effectively.” He expressed appreciation for the work of the Executive Committee, calling state conventions “Great Commission partners” of the SBC that could participate in a consortium involving the EC president.

“Together they can plan and execute an annual strategy that will promote the Cooperative Program to our churches as well as challenge our churches in biblical stewardship,” Floyd said. Calling it a return to the strategy offered in 1929 that gave state conventions responsibility for promoting CP “in the field and gathering funds from the churches,” Floyd said historic precedence permits such a move.

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View church ministry through ‘family lens,’ conference speakers urge

Drawing on an agricultural picture from his West Texas background, Richard Ross described the landscape of church life as a cluster of silos?one for preschoolers, one for school-age children, one for students, one for adult ministries, and so on.

“What we don’t need is one more silo that is the “family-ministry silo,” he said in sharing his vision for family-focused church ministry.

Speaking to hundreds of ministers and future church leaders at a conference co-hosted by the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, Ross emphasized that ministry to families is not another program or age-group “silo” to manage. Rather, it is a way to view existing ministries while always keeping in mind the Deuteronomy 6:4-9 mandate for parents to be the primary spiritual instructors of their children.

“Figure out laterally how to put a family focus on it. Use a ‘home lens’ for everything versus creating a new silo,” he said.

Further explaining the problem, Ross said, “Our primary model has been ‘church-centered and family-supported.’ We have created programs at church and we have tried to motivate families to support those programs.” Ross contends that for the last 50 years churches have inadvertently taught parents their whole duty in training their children spiritually is to drop them off at church for the professionals to instruct them.

The biblical model is very different: “And you tell in the hearing of your son and your son’s son, the mighty things I have done ? that you may know that I Am the Lord,” Ross said, quoting Exodus 10:2. “That’s how this thing was supposed to work.”

Off track and under attack

Southwestern Seminary President Paige Patterson delivered the opening address in the two-day gathering called “Connected: Families and Churches, Partners in Ministry,” reminding participants how far from a biblical foundation the family and church have strayed.

“What is the hallowed position that is under attack? God in his infinite wisdom and benevolence has prescribed the family as the basic unit of social order providing a rather specific and functional and relational model which, if embraced, pays significant dividends not only for the individual and the family, but also for all other aspects of the social order,” he asserted.

Other key directives of Scripture for family that Patterson believes are devalued or omitted because they are not popular include the mandates that a husband and wife be devoted to each other for life, that children honor and obey their parents, that the man is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church, and that God’s created order is perfect and absolute.

Patterson’s solution is to return to our commitment to the whole counsel of God from our pulpits. “‘The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul’?turning the soul back to God,” he said referencing Psalm 19:7. “If this is the Word of God, you have to do it his way. That is where we find happiness, fulfillment, joy and meaningfulness for life.”

Ross noted another ministry dynamic that he believes has served to remove the primary role of spiritual instruction from parents. To better serve congregations, churches have, over recent decades, hired more and more specialized age-group ministers.

“In a sincere desire to earn their keep, many [age-group ministers] have created new programs designed to spiritually transform children and youth. And in a sincere desire to see those programs prosper, they have intentionally or unintentionally communicated to parents that those programs offer the best hope for spiritually strong children.”

Ross does not advocate eliminating staff positions as a solution. Instead, he believes a change in their roles is warranted. “An age-group minister who sets himself or herself up as an alternative to the parents, or implies consciously or unconsciously, ‘I’m doing most of this, and parents, you help me out’?that person needs a change of heart.”

“But I do think those who are ready to come alongside parents and champion families have a valuable place in the church to come,” Ross added.

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Texas-produced film links eugenics, abortion, and targeting of blacks

DENTON?The window dressing may be benign, but behind the curtain remains the dark elitism of the eugenics movement, which continues to flourish in the 21st century with a disproportionate focus on black Americans.

That’s the message of a relatively new video documentary, “Maafa21: Black Genocide in 21st Century America,” from Denton-based Life Dynamics Inc. The group’s president, Mark Crutcher, wrote and produced it and is featured numerous times in the film.

Maafa (pronounced Mah-off-ah) is a Swahili word for tragedy, in this case the continued repercussions of Western slavery that Crutcher argues led to the eugenics movement and specifically to the government’s role in funding family planning, birth control and abortion aimed at minority groups and especially blacks.

The end result: a disproportionate percentage of “family planning” clinics in black neighborhoods and an African-American abortion rate that has skyrocketed in the last 40 years.

The film begins with a scene in a slave cemetery in Denton County, then unwinds for viewers a chronological chain of events, from American slavery, the emergence of Charles Darwin’s survival of the fittest and the eugenics movement that was fueled by Darwin’s cousin, the father of eugenics, Francis Galton, and concurrent social developments.

The documentary proceeds through the years of Civil War Reconstruction, a period when some American industrialists turned to eugenics as a method of controlling wealth and maintaining civil order for fear that 4 million freed slaves would overwhelm the ruling American upper class.

The founder of the American Birth Control League (later known as Planned Parenthood), Margaret Sanger, became a tool of some wealthy industrialists, as one observer in the film states: “[T]hey needed a front man and she needed money.”

Sanger is quoted in the film, from 1922.

“We are paying for and ever submitting to the dictates of an ever-increasing, unceasingly spawning class of human beings who never should have been born at all,” said Sanger, lamenting that the resources of individuals and states were being diverted to care for them.

Hitler’s Nazi philosophy was largely influenced, the film states, by American eugenicist Madison Grant, whose book “The Passing of the Great Race” Hitler referred to as his Bible.

Throughout the film, narrated by an African American man and woman, several black pro-life activists are featured, including Alveda King, a niece of Martin Luther King.

The film shows the rise of the American government’s funding of family planning, most notably through abortion but also through sterilization and emerging birth control methods such as Norplant, and the correlation of rising abortion rates among black women since the early 1970s?an abrupt change from earlier periods when white women were getting most of the abortions.

The film’s criticism cuts across political lines, with elitist tendencies aimed at curbing the black population dating back to President Lyndon B. Johnson, a Democrat, and proliferating under Republican President Richard Nixon.

The film also includes several quotes from a much younger Jesse Jackson, who at one time was unabashedly pro-life, according to his comments.

“What happens to the mind of a person, and the moral fabric of a nation, that accepts the aborting of the life of a baby without a conscience?” Jackson is quoted as saying in the 1970s. “What kind of a person, and what kind of a society will we have 20 years hence if life can be taken so casually?”

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SBTC Foundation’s ‘Treasure Hunt Experience’ offers inspiration, education on stewardship

GRAPEVINE?What do artwork depicting the widow’s mite and a Rolex print ad have in common? The answer lies within the one-of-a-kind Biblical Stewardship History Collection now available to Texas Southern Baptists through the SBTC Foundation.

Thanks to a partnership between the foundation and the collection’s curator, historic stewardship artifacts, art, and the largest known stewardship research library are on display in Grapevine.

Scott Preissler occupies the Bobby and Janis L. Eklund chair of stewardship at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, is director of the seminary’s Center for Biblical Stewardship, and is the curator and owner of the collection.

“The collection is now available to help SBTC churches educate about stewardship,” Johnathan Gray, executive director of the SBTC Foundation, said. “Stewardship has been a part of the church for years; it’s not something to be ashamed of, it’s a vital part of how we worship our Lord and do his ministry.”

The new, 3,900 square-foot facility at Faith Christian School that now houses the collection was built by volunteers and funded through donations.

“It’s a great privilege to see how groups come together to make things happen,” Gray said.

Volunteers and special guests gathered March 14 to celebrate completion of the facility and be the first group to tour the collection.

“Every person who comes through, something appeals to them,” said Sylvia Crecelius, president of The Stewardship Alliance.

Darin Brown volunteered his carpentry skills on this project, and gained a new insight into the value of the collection.

“You see all these pieces and you think, who used this, when, and why?” Brown said. “You can bring lay people and church staff in and stir their thoughts for how to teach stewardship.”

From the wooden baskets of the old West to the centuries-old large brass alms collection plates, every stewardship artifact tells the tale of the importance of stewardship in the life of the church.

“It’s the [visual] history of biblical stewardship through the local church,” Bobby L. Eklund, stewardship consultant for the SBTC, said.

Preissler has collected stewardship artifacts for 20 years?items date from the 1500s to today. In addition to offering plates, the collection includes missionary boxes, games, artwork and an extensive stewardship library.

“We encourage groups to come and have a day-long stewardship experience,” Gray said.

After visiting the Stewardship Collection, groups are invited to the SBTC building where they will learn about how the Lord is using gifts through the Cooperative Program, Southern Baptists’ unified missions funding channel.

Groups will learn “how resources come in from our churches and how they go out to reach Texas and touch the world,” Gray noted.

All ages can benefit from a tour of the stewardship artifacts, Preissler said, noting he recently hosted a second grade class. While one generation will enjoy reminiscing about missionary boxes they used as children, another will benefit from seeing the priority stewardship had in the livelihoods of generations before them.

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The essential component of family ministry

I heard an ad campaign some years ago that prompted us to ask ourselves one simple question before doing most things: “Is it good for the children?” The campaign’s motives were noble and its point was fine, as far as it went. The problem was that it addresses most problems related to the welfare of children too far downstream from the source. Unless we really do consider the “village” (government at some level) the primary caregiver and discipler of our offspring, the marriage between a father and a mother is the wellspring of most blessing and cursing sprinkled over children.

It seems missing or broken marriages are louder in their cursing than whole marriages are in their blessing. The most often cited statistics show that children are 3-4 times more likely to live in poverty if they live in a single-parent home?without regard to race or the employment status of the mother. We don’t need statisticians to tell us that. Anyone who’s worked with the complex and fragmented families of divorce or fatherless homes has seen problems even more significant than poverty. Even though beloved friends and brothers known to me find themselves in those same complex situations, the traditional and unblended family is the strong core of our congregations. And that is where churches should start in family ministry.

Yes, we do have conferences and curricula and some fine books on the subject. Go to those conferences, offer studies using a good biblical curriculum designed to build strong marriages, read those fine books. Maybe some churches out there even have ministers to marriages on their staffs. As laudable and potentially useful as good resources can be, those things are not what I mean. If ministry to children and parents can be integrated into the cellular structure of our churches, and this is an exciting thought, then we can and must do something similar to our strengthening of marriages. Here are a few that make sense to me.

Exalt the marriage covenant from the beginning?Too many people get married in church. I’ve performed those ceremonies where I’d come to understand that the happy couple understood little or nothing about God. Why were they being married in church and what was I doing in the middle of it? They wanted a traditional service in a photogenic setting and that’s it. Shame on me and shame on us. I will no longer perform a wedding for those who are not known to me to be maturing Christians committed to God’s will. If people in or outside our congregation want a religiously oriented civil ceremony, let’s not settle for that.

In service of that, young pastors should do what I didn’t?develop a theology of marriage. What do you believe Matthew 5:32 means? How does that passage and others that explain marriage and divorce impact your practice when an idealistic couple makes that initial appointment with you? Build some policies into your own ministry and into the practice of your church that don’t discourage marriage but which do make it a more sober covenant, not lightly entered into. And yes, I’ve led people to Christ during pre-marital counseling. That’s a fine reason to agree to pre-marital counseling. If that’s the plan, do at least a couple of sessions before deciding if you’ll do the ceremony. Take that decision seriously?meaning you sometimes must decline.

Exalt marriages that persevere?And let’s do more than let Walter and Nellie stand up to congregational applause on their 50th anniversary. How did they make it to 50? Some younger couple with budding relationship problems would be interested. Rather than let wise husbands and wives serve out their years of influence in the Adult XXVII Sunday School class, let them spend some time with newlyweds and 30-somethings. Isn’t that a value of multi-generational churches? They are more like families. I learned things never overtly taught from my grandparents and even some from my great-grandparents. I’ve learned things from some of my grandparents in the Lord over the years also. This can be arranged intentionally by wise church leaders without creating a new program.

Exalt the significance of covenant vows?One of the discouraging things all pastors face is hearing solemn vows made insincerely. Sometimes that breaking of vows will manifest itself as adultery, abandonment, passivity, or even abuse. Churches will often officially ignore the behavior or the problem but that’s not the same as saying no one notices. If Walter and Nellie are role models on their 50th, so are men who send their wives and kids to church each week alone. So are spouses who abandon their mates for some silly understanding of freedom or success. So are adulterers. The wandering spouses are examples and so are we who merely fidget and watch. Our children watch to see how important this is to us. Couples with problems watch to see what we do when the problems go somewhat public. Couples who don’t currently have problems watch to see how high their own views of marriage should be.

Yes, I’m referring to accountability, edification, and even discipline if need be. We’ll have weaker marriages, poorer children, and anemic family ministry so long as the things we say about marriage and during ceremonies are only theoretical. And we’ll wonder why our efforts aren’t bearing more fruit.

Exalt the significance of marriage at the end?Divorce is not an unpardonable sin. It’s not the worst of sins in its consequences. It is something the Lord hates, though. It is a sin, not just something that happens. It also has devastating consequences that go far beyond the couple in question. It is no more a part of love or mercy to be neutrally encouraging to a

Faith at home philosophy brings growth to Austin church

AUSTIN?After radically changing his church’s culture to reflect a family emphasis, Pastor Ryan Rush has seen homes healed and new growth at Bannockburn Baptist Church in Austin.

“Over the last 20 years, [family] has been my heart and passion,” said Rush, also a radio host and author of a life-management book based on Psalm 90 called “Home on Time.” After serving as family pastor at Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Va., for eight years, Rush returned to Texas and transitioned Bannockburn to a family-oriented culture, beginning with its mission statement?”to guide generations to become passionate follows of Jesus Christ one home at time.”

“The passion for Jesus Christ is commonplace for any church that is Great Commission-based,” said Rush, who has served at Bannockburn for six years. “But the unique element is the generational side. We really believe in the power of cross-generational ministry and the young honoring the old and the old pouring themselves into the lives of the young.”

Although the church still offers age-graded classes, there is one “cross-generational” worship service. “We place a high value on everybody stretching in our worship setting,” Rush said, adding that there are no contemporary or traditional controversies over music or preaching style. “We see more value in having all ages together in worship than in having our preferences met.”

Rush said their family philosophy also recognizes that ministry mandates are not completed within the walls of the church. “They have to be completed when they are exported to every home we serve. That is far more encompassing than family ministry,” he said, referring to marriage or parenting ministries. “But home ministries are exporting all ministries to homes whether [they are] single, isolated family members [where the rest of the family isn’t involved at church] a family by the strict definition, or a hurting family.”

Using the model from 1 Timothy 5, Rush said Paul’s instructions regarding the structure of the church demonstrates the home is the primary equipper of benevolence or help across the generations.

As such, Rush said the church logo serves as a visual reminder to church members of the significance God places on the home. Four-colored quadrants encircle a cross, conveying a single focus on Christ through the four-fold mandates of worshipping, giving, inviting, and discovering God’s truth.

“Embedded inside [the logo] is the icon of the home, and that puts before our people that no matter what they are involved in at the church it must be exported home,” he said.

“And the one activator of connecting home and church life is the promises of Scripture,” Rush said, referring to the commands of Deuteronomy 6, Psalm 78, and Ephesians 6 that all pertain to home life.

“That means if we can connect the promises at home so that people are internalizing them, then you’ve won the battle?living things out at home,” Rush said. “This is more than a program, seminar, or devotional, as good as all those things are. We call that process ‘faith breakthroughs.'”

Defined as “using the promises of God to break through the barriers in our homes/lives that keep us from living the life God intended,” Rush said faith breakthroughs involve reading, discussing, and memorizing Scripture.

“And all of that may sound general, but it extends across the church. Everyone is engaged in the process.”

Yet transitioning to a family philosophy does not require hiring a family pastor, Rush cautioned.

Rush said each of his pastoral staff believes himself to be a family pastor. “[I]n children’s ministry their job is primarily to equip the parents to equip the children. The student pastor would say the same?to equip the parents to equip the children and also to equip the teens to prepare for their own home lives, not just to have a good time. Our singles pastor embraces the idea of faith and home because their home lives largely determine success or failure later on?or define who they are today.”

Pushing discipleship at home challenging

Understanding the need for family ministry isn’t hard. Finding a way to do it, with so many ministry plates already spinning, may seem impossible. How do church leaders stop being the primary faith trainers of children and youth, and transition that role back into the homes? Have any churches done it? Can it happen without overhauling ministries?

For some churches, the solution might be as simple as finding a way to regularly remind parents to teach faith at home, and provide ideas and resources that make it easy to carry out. Other churches might take a more comprehensive approach.

Richard Ross, a professor at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, said that two years ago leaders from 18 churches venturing into family ministry assembled to talk about all the things they were learning. Ross noted some principals these church leaders felt could benefit those who might follow in their path:

>Empower a visionary champion?someone to take the lead.

>Establish new success measures. What gets measured gets done.

>Build on the existing church vision.

>Build into the existing church calendar.

>Use a home lens for everything (rather than making a new ‘silo’).

>Regularly invite families to commit to teaching faith at home.

>Develop a culture of family intentionality.

>Customize to fit the different kinds of families in the church.

>Invest in tools for families. Start where you are and build.

“None of this will go anywhere if the ministers in the church with children at home are not setting the pace,” Ross counseled. “You can fool the people for a while, but not forever. Leaders who nurture warm heart connections with their children, transparently share their faith and pray deeply with those children, and who genuinely live out the Way in front of those children?offer our best hope to see the people in the pew do the same thing.

In recent years, several Texas churches have pioneered their own effective strategies to lead their families back toward practicing the Deuteronomy 6:4-9 mandate. Some of those strategies are:

FAMILY-EQUIPPING APPROACH

Philosophy: The family equipping model maintains a traditional age-graded program structure while calling parents to the task of spiritually training their children at home, and providing resources to assist them.

Example: LakePointe Church in Rockwall uses the family equipping approach. Under the leadership of Kurt Bruner, pastor of spiritual formation, the church launched HomePointe in 2008. At a HomePointe kiosk prominently located in the church’s lobby, families can find a number of helpful guides and instructional items to help them take incremental steps to teach faith at home.

Bruner noted that the primary fruit they are seeing from HomePointe is “a proactive culture of family intentionality, increasing the likelihood our people will: (1) create a life-long, thriving marriage; (2) introduce their young children to Christ in the context of the home; and (3) launch their teens as devoted followers of Christ.”

FAMILY-BASED APPROACH

Philosophy: A family-based approach maintains an age level- and interest-driven program while providing training events for parents and activities to help bring families together.

Example: Bannockburn Baptist in Austin sets each of their programs in a family context. Each age-group minister is charged with equipping parents to equip their children and teens. The pastor to singles emphasizes faith and home in ministry to singles, preparing them to succeed. A legacy conference held each year for senior adults charges them to pour into the lives of future generations.

Philosophy: The family-integrated model rejects age-segregation, to conduct ministries using intergenerational discipleship.

Examples: Grace Family Baptist Church in Spring is a flagship church for the family integrated strategy, led by pastor Voddie Baucham. In his book “Family-Driven Faith: doing What it Takes to Raise Sons and Daughters who Walk With God,” Baucham outlines four distinctives of the family-integrated church: 1) Families worship together, 2) no systematic segregation of ages, 3) evangelism and discipleship take place in and through homes, and 4) an emphasis on education as a key component of discipleship, often through homeschooling. A similar approach at Ridgewood Church in Port Arthur is described by Pastor Dustin Guidry in his book “Turning the Ship: Exploring the Age-Integrated Church.”

START SIMPLE
The aforementioned strategies are just a few examples of the more thorough approaches church leaders could consider in leading families to do faith at home. For church leaders looking for some quick and easy ideas to begin directing the hearts of parents to children, Ross offered these suggestions at a family ministry conference at Southwestern Seminary:

Daily: Remind parents to pray daily with and for their children. Encourage them to daily live their lives demonstrating truth for their children—to speak truth every day as they walk in the way.

Weekly: Encourage parents to sit down in their homes at least once per week and talk about Jesus. Ross cautioned, “We have to instruct them how to do that,” recommending a role-playing demonstration. Ross said if they see it demonstrated, people realize, ‘That isn’t that hard. I could do that!’”

Monthly: Invite parents and families to do service and missions once per month as a family.

Yearly: Provide families opportunities for missions and service away from home. Encourage them to spend one day of their family vacation doing a service project.

WHEN PARENTS WON’T
In a perfect world, all children and youth in church ministries would have parents who faithfully attend church and desire to instruct their children spiritually. In reality, many kids come to church without their parents, and many parents are happy to let the church take on the role of primary faith trainer. What is the church’s role in these situations?

SBTC church ministry associates Lance Crowell and Ken Lasater agree that churches must continue reaching out to non-believing parents.

“Even if they [the parents] are lost, equip them and challenge them to provide training to their child,” Lasater said. “Tell them and help them understand that God’s instruction is that they bear that responsibility. Even lost parents can become a part of their child’s spiritual development, even if they don’t fully understand the process.”

“Turning up the volume” through sermons or other teachings is what Lasater recommends for helping parents within the walls of the church begin to reclaim their responsibilities for nurturing their own children spiritually.

Crowell added: “There are many contexts where really there are no parents or they are repeatedly uninterested. In my opinion, I do not think at that point you stop trying to reach them, but you do need to move forward with developing the students. I believe that a changed student can be one of the greatest catalysts for reaching the adults.”

Crowell noted that the family-integrated model encourages other families in the church to pour into the lives of those children who do not have a good influence at home.

But Crowell said the most natural help for students without spiritual nurturers at home is the student minister.

He said, “If the parents in the church are doing what they are called to do in their own homes, then the student minister is freed up to reach new students and to love on those without parents more and help in their development.”