Theme calls for men to be wholly committed to Christ in pursuit of holiness.
By Paul F. South
FORT WORTHāInside the church walls and beyond, sinās hold on men is epidemic.
But against the cultural currents, an August menās rally in the Dallas-Fort Worth area aims to help men pursue holiness in Christ by being wholly committed to Christ.
The Real Men of Impact rally at 7 p.m. Friday, Aug. 15 at North Richland Hills Baptist Church will feature former NFL quarterback Jon Kitna as the keynote speaker. Terry Turner, pastor of Mesquite Friendship Baptist Church in Mesquite, will also speak, and the Michael Armstrong Band will perform.
The event, with free admission, is part of the SBTCās Equip Mega-Conference.
āWeāre really dealing with this idea of calling men to be completely in step with Christ,ā said Lance Crowell, SBTC director of discipleship ministries. āPart of the struggle for men is they are not fully in step with Christ and as a result there are areas of their lives that actually are being ravaged by sin that keep them from ministry and a lot of other good things.ā
Crowell added: āI think a lot of the struggle in many churches where there are not enough men stepping up in some ways is because the men have sin issues that just hold them down very heavily and keep them from being involved in other aspects of ministry or really being who God is calling them to be.ā
Kitna, the 2003 NFL Comeback Player of the Year as a quarterback for the Cincinnati Bengals, played as recently as last year in a reserve role for the Dallas Cowboys. The 41-year-old Kitna, a graduate of Central Washington University, began his professional career with the Seattle Seahawks. In recent years, Kitna has shared his faith at a number of churches in Texas and elsewhere, Crowell said. But Kitnaās message will be more than a personal testimony.
āWe believe that Jon is going to challenge men to be who Godās called them to be,ā Crowell said. āWe really like that. He has been in a lot of locker rooms with guys who have run after the things of the world and come back empty-handed. This idea of him challenging them to be fully committed to Christ, we think heās a perfect fit for that.ā
Men struggle with a variety of challengesāfrom pornography, to business ethics, to other attacks on marriage that some have called āthe secret sins.ā For example, according to surveys, nearly one in two Christiansā47 percentāsay pornography is a major problem in their home, Crowell said.
āThatās almost one in every two Christians saying that,ā Crowell noted. āItās definitely more pervasive than weāre willing to let on, and part of the reason that weāre not seeing a lot of spiritual growth and development is because thereās sin in the camp that just is not allowing for growth and other things that need to take place in the lives of families because theyāre just ravaged by sin.
āThe reality is that if you want to impact whole families you must reach the men. Most of the time you cannot reach the entire family through the children or even the wife. But if you are able to reach a manās heart often his family will follow as well.ā
āHow big is the dadās spiritual impact on the home? Itās massive,ā Crowell said.
Scott Maze, pastor of North Richland Hills Baptist, hopes the annual event will plant the seeds for a forest of spiritual giants. He cited Godās mandate in Psalm 78:4-5.
āWe want to see men who are California redwood, spiritual-stature strong in Christ. Not like a bonsai tree, not a dwarf tree but someone whoās strong in following the Lord, in leading. God has designed men to lead,ā Maze said.
Men need to focus on what Maze called āthe cardinal issuesāāthat God is central to life, that God has laid out a blueprint for successful men and families in his Word, and that men are commanded by God to teach that blueprint to their children.
āWhen they do that, the families will gravitate toward that conviction. It will change the direction and trajectory of families for a long time,ā Maze said.
Godās Word commands men to follow Christās example, to be affirming, loving and generous, not a āget-off-my-lawn grouch.ā
āFor a man to be who God wants him to be, heās got to be wholly in step Christ, and only through that can he be holy in practice,ā Crowell said. āWe want to challenge him to be committed to Christ in all things and let the Holy Spirit do his work.ā
While the conference is free, registration is required. For more information, go to sbtexas.com/Equip and look for the Real Men of Impact link.