Author: Jayson Larson

Churches posting song lists ahead of service feel they are helping prepare congregants for worship

Releasing a sermon title prior to the Sunday service is common practice, but a growing number of churches across Texas are doing something similar with their song selections, too—allowing members to know what will be sung long before they enter the doors on the Lord’s Day.

First Baptist Church of Prosper is one such congregation. Jared Whitworth, the church’s minister of worship, posts the upcoming songs on the church’s social media accounts, linking them to the same tunes on Spotify and Apple Music.

The result: members of FBC Prosper can listen to new and old songs alike days prior to the service, readying their hearts for worship. Gone are the days when attendees sit silently in the service trying to learn a tune they’ve never heard.

Whitworth says the idea is grounded in Scripture’s description of worship as a corporate action. He points to Colossians 3:16, which urges Christians to admonish “one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.” Ephesians 5:19 has a similar admonition, he said.

“There are all kinds of commands in Scripture that tell us worship and singing is a very corporate act,” Whitworth said. “And so that’s the heart behind it—really getting people to learn the songs and be able to better participate in corporate worship so that we can teach and admonish and encourage each other as we are worshiping God through song.”

The goal, he said, is to get “people to learn the song, then come ready to sing on Sunday and be comfortable doing it.”

One such example was found on FBC Prosper’s Facebook page on a Wednesday in mid-February. Whitworth listed the five songs that were scheduled to be sung the following Sunday, along with links to the tunes on Spotify and Apple Music.

In recent weeks, Northeast Houston Baptist Church and North Richland Hills Baptist Church used social media to alert members of new songs that would be sung in the service.

Joseph R. Crider, dean of the School of Church Music and Worship at Southwestern Seminary, is a champion of the idea.

“I wish more churches would do it,” he said.

Crider sees two major benefits to releasing the song selections ahead of the service.

“One, it helps them engage on Sunday mornings, because they already have those songs in their minds, in their hearts—and they’re able to participate,” Crider said. “They’re not sitting there not wondering, ‘I don’t know the rhythm. I don’t know the melody. I don’t know anything.’ They’ve been hearing it throughout the week, and they are able to engage. Secondly, when the songs are wonderfully rooted in Scripture, I think it’s a beautiful way for people to grow in their spiritual formation.”

The primary role of a worship or music minister, Crider said, is to “facilitate a dialogue between the triune God of the universe and His redeemed people.”

“And anything we can do to help facilitate that I think is really worth it,” he said.

Placing the songs on social media has other benefits, Whitworth said. Members and attendees can use the songs in their daily, personal worship time. They also can use the songs in family worship. Parents, he said, can read a passage of Scripture to their children related to the song and then sing “one of the songs that we’re going to be singing in church on Sunday.” By doing that, family worship and corporate worship are constantly related.

Whitworth says he got the idea from a book by Keith and Kristyn Getty, “Sing!He chooses artists on Spotify and Apple Music that are biblically sound, he said.

“We’re able to then direct them towards more solid churches or groups that are covering the songs instead of the original groups that put them out that may have bad theology,” he said.

Members, he said, have embraced the idea.

“I’ve seen a steady increase … of people listening to the music and people singing more and more on Sundays,” he said. “I do think that this is helping.”

As devastating storms take much, Jesus gives new life to survivors

Multiple tornadoes ripped through North and East Texas and Oklahoma on March 21, on the heels of wildfires that raged in Eastland and Brown counties to the west only days before.

Southern Baptists of Texas Convention Disaster Relief responded to the disasters, moving volunteers into place the day after the storms. They were joined by local community and church members plus other Southern Baptist Disaster Relief teams.

Jacksboro steps up: salvations and a cross

In the Jacksboro area, an SBTC DR quick response mobile kitchen cranked out meals for volunteers and first responders and was relieved by a second QRU the week of March 27. An SBTC DR recovery unit from Bellville was joined by a team from Arkansas DR. An SBTC DR shower/laundry unit arrived on site March 26 to serve volunteers and the community. Live Oak Baptist Church in Jacksboro housed DR crews.

Mike Phillips of Bellville called the deployment “unusual,” praising the community. Often a municipality will organize debris removal, he said, but in Jacksboro, neighbors stepped up.

“It was heartwarming to see all the townspeople out to help their neighbors. We don’t always see that,” Phillips said, adding that the county district attorney even showed up with his own trailer to transport debris to the local landfill, while several father-son teams did the same thing. Football players from nearby Graham, Jacksboro’s big rival, came to help, also.

At the home of a retired Baptist pastor, a large piece of tin roofing lodged in a tree. When Phillips asked if the homeowner wanted the metal removed, the wife declined and showed them why. On the other side, the tin represented a perfect cross and the couple wanted it to stay.

Following the Jacksboro storms, a piece of tin bent into the shape of a cross and lodged in a tree reminded the homeowners of God's faithfulness. JEAN DUCHARME PHOTO

Terry Bunch, SBTC DR chaplain from Haskell, told of a callout to an address off U.S. 380. He expected a damaged structure but saw only a slab remaining.

Bunch toured the property with homeowner Miguel, who spoke of rushing home to load his wife and young children in a pickup after the tornado warning sounded. They escaped but returned to find only a pile of rubble where a small home, a chicken coop, and dog pens once stood.

Miguel told Bunch of his dreams for the land, now shattered. He had only five years left to pay on the mortgage and now he would be paying on nothing. The family was staying in a small RV pulled to the site.

“I love my family. I wanted to build a nice life for them here in this community,” Miguel said. Talk turned to spiritual things.

“I just can’t pray. I don’t know what to say,” Miguel said.

Bunch discussed the gospel with the young man and together they perused a Send Relief tract on hope in crisis. Bunch asked Miguel if he would like to make a decision to follow Christ.

“Let me see,” Miguel replied. He read through the booklet silently and suddenly stopped, removed his cap, and prayed the prayer written inside aloud. He continued praying aloud for his family, the people affected by the tornado, thanking God for sending so many people to help them.

“Only 10 minutes before he had said he could not pray anymore. Soon he could not stop,” Bunch said.

In addition to talking with homeowners like Miguel, Bunch and other SBTC DR volunteers assisted the local elementary school, helping escort first and second graders from the bus to their temporary classrooms at First Baptist Church of Jacksboro. The elementary school was damaged by the tornado; the high school gym was destroyed.

Homes crushed, hearts restored in Gilmer

Meanwhile, in the Gilmer area, SBTC DR incident leader Debra Britt of Flint similarly praised the involvement of the community and especially New Beginnings Baptist Church in relief and recovery operations there following the tornadoes.

Quickly after the storms, New Beginnings opened a distribution center for food, water, paper goods, diapers, and other supplies at its Gilmer campus, Britt said.

Initially, SBTC DR units were headquartered at the church, but on March 26, they and the distribution center moved to the nearby Yamboree Event Center.

A QRU manned by Fredye Quain of Athens, fresh from a deployment to serve fire survivors in Carbon, quickly established operations in Gilmer, preparing hundreds of meals for the community and volunteers, including 825 meals on March 26. In addition, local restaurants supplemented the feeding, Britt noted.

New Beginnings members transported meals to homes throughout Upshur County, Britt added. “They are doing a great job organizing and fielding the calls and trying to meet as many needs as they can,” she said of the church.

A second QRU staffed by Ronnie and Connie Roark of San Antonio rotated in March 27. The Roarks started preparing 250-350 meals per day.

In addition to the QRUs, SBTC DR assessors, recovery volunteers, an incident management team, shower workers, and Texas Baptist Men volunteers served at Gilmer. Volunteers were housed in an SBTC bunkhouse.

A massive oak crushed half a home in Gilmer, demanding expert removal by SBTC DR crews. COURTESY PHOTO

As in Jacksboro, Gilmer community members stepped up to help their neighbors. Chainsaw work is dangerous, and SBTC DR chainsaw crews worked on the more challenging jobs, including handling a massive fallen oak tree that partially crushed a home. Veteran Paul Easter’s crew got to work.

“The whole back of the house was destroyed. The homeowners told us insurance had totaled it,” Steve Adcock, SBTC DR chainsaw team member, said. The family was still living in half the home and the roof was “very unstable,” he added.

The tree penetrated the house to its slab, Adcock said. Large limbs, two feet in diameter, filled half the home. The crew removed as much as they could, preventing a cave-in of the remaining roof.

Another job brought eternal benefits, Adcock said. His team, accompanied by chaplain Vince Rowe, worked on the property of a homeowner whose yard looked like a “war zone,” with downed pine trees strewn about.

Several large limbs had punched through the home’s roof, which was so steep that a roofer had refused to tarp it.

“We had the lift,” Adcock said, “so we tarped the house.” The grateful homeowner thanked them profusely. Throughout the day, Rowe talked with the homeowner, a Mormon whose wife was a Baptist. The man accepted Christ as his Savior. He even asked Rowe to return to talk to his children.

“What’s happened here is a tragedy, but if your salvation came out of it, it was worth it,” Adcock told the homeowner after referencing Romans 8:28.

The man agreed, Adcock said.

“You never go [on deployment] that you’re not blessed as much or more than you help others,” Adcock said.

The Gilmer site was expected to demobilize March 30, SBTC DR Director Scottie Stice said.

Grayson County and Romania

In other SBTC DR news, an SBTC bunkhouse was deployed to Sherwood Shores Chapel in Gordonville in Grayson County on March 26 to house TBM volunteers.

The first multi-state SBDR team including two SBTC DR volunteers departed for Romania on March 23 and began working at the refugee center along the Ukrainian/Romanian border the following day. A second team with SBTC DR volunteers departs for the area on March 30. SBDR teams from Arkansas and Alabama are scheduled to follow, Stice confirmed.

SWBTS taking the ‘Dome’ on the road for three-state tour

Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary is “bringing the Dome” to cities in Texas, Oklahoma, and Arkansas in coming weeks, connecting alumni, friends, and prospective students during Southwestern Nights events.

Offered in Houston, Oklahoma City, Little Rock, and Dallas in April and May, the free events will allow attendees to hear from Adam W. Greenway, president of Southwestern Seminary and Texas Baptist College, members of the Southwestern Seminary faculty, and local pastors who graduated from the Fort Worth institution.

Through the events, attendees will learn about the future of Southwestern Seminary under Greenway’s leadership.

Held from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at each location, the evenings will include dinner and Southwestern Seminary-themed giveaways.

The dates, locations, and registration for the events are:

April 12 – Houston, Houston’s First Baptist Church

April 19 – Oklahoma City, Southern Hills Baptist Church

April 21 – Little Rock, Immanuel Baptist Church

May 10 – Dallas, Prestonwood Baptist Church

Lorick to SWBTS students: ‘Ministry is hard — but God’s Spirit empowers you’

Lorick SWBTS chapel

FORT WORTH—Standing before a diverse group of students at one of the largest seminaries in the world, Southern Baptists of Texas Convention Executive Director Nathan Lorick on Tuesday emphatically delivered a message he admitted might not sound like good news.

The message? “Ministry is hard.”

“I can promise that you will go through season after season after season of difficulty and challenge,” said Lorick, preaching at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary’s weekly chapel service. “But it is good news, because in the face of trials and the face of adversity and the face of uncertainty, God’s Spirit empowers you daily to walk through those things. And when you are looking at an uncertain future, you can hold on to the promise that God is in your tomorrow already waiting on you when you get there.”

In those difficult seasons, Lorick cautioned students to remember that their true calling from God will sometimes be the only thing that sustains them in their ministries. He likened such challenging times to those recounted by Paul in Acts 20, highlighting from the text the character that made Paul a great leader.

Acts 20 provides a historical account of Paul’s farewell message to the elders of the Ephesian church. In the passage, Paul describes how he served the Ephesians “with all humility, with tears” (v.19) while enduring hardships that included the Jews constantly plotting against him. Despite those trials, Paul reminds the elders he never stopped proclaiming the truth of the gospel and that he will continue to proclaim it as he prepares to head to Jerusalem where “chains and affliction are waiting for me” (v.23).

In the passage, Lorick said, Paul demonstrated himself to be a leader who was not afraid to be authentic and honest about his brokenness (v.18); whose convictions did not change through difficult circumstances (v.20); who was resolved to advance the mission even in times of uncertainty (v.22-23); and who stayed focused on the things that mattered most (v.24). Lorick implored the students to adopt Paul’s leadership character and reject the tendency of some who define ministry success by measures that may not necessarily benefit the kingdom of God.

“I can’t promise success in the way that [it is measured] today,” Lorick said, “but what I can promise is that, in the calling of your ministry, there will be challenges, there will be afflictions, there will be hardships—and you have to have the resolve and calling of God. … There will be times in your ministry when the only thing you have to go to is that calling you have from God. There will be times when books won’t help, friends will try to encourage you, but you will be so perplexed about the situation and the uncertainty that the only thing you will have is to get on your knees and say, ‘God, I don’t know what tomorrow holds, but I know you called me to go into tomorrow in this calling.’”

During chapel, and at a luncheon held to honor SWBTS faculty and staff afterward, Lorick marveled at the thousands of men and women the seminary has trained and sent out into missions fields all over the world and thanked them for their dedication and service.

From the Eastland Complex fires: SBTC DR delivers food and hope

EASTLAND COUNTY—The smell of smoke from charred grasslands and fields lingers along State Highway 6 and Farm-to-Market Road 2526, roads into Carbon, a small Eastland County town devastated by wildfires that broke out March 17 and claimed the life of Eastland County deputy Barbara Fenley, who died evacuating residents when her patrol car became stuck in a pasture engulfed by flames.

As of March 22, the Eastland Complex fires—four wildfires that scorched Eastland County and spread to neighboring Brown County—were 60% contained, thanks to the efforts of firefighters from across Texas and other states such as California, Colorado, Nevada, and Florida.

Rains on March 21 also soaked the area, dampening smoldering pockets which had threatened to burst into flames again, fanned by high winds as they had been the day before.

The damage to Carbon is extensive. The sheriff’s report shared on Carbon Community Baptist Church’s Facebook page revealed 151 structures had been destroyed by the fire, which burned whole streets full of homes only a block from the church. Jody Forbus, Carbon Community pastor, also serves as chief of the town’s volunteer fire department and owns the local Ag & Outdoor store.

Responding rapidly to the tragedy, Southern Baptists of Texas Disaster Relief rushed a quick response kitchen unit to Carbon to offer meals for first responders and survivors. Fredy Quain of Athens and volunteers manned the mobile food truck during its short deployment.

Serving first responders at Eastland

In its ongoing partnership with the Salvation Army, SBTC DR deployed a separate team of volunteers to Eastland to staff a large Salvation Army kitchen and serve first responders, including forestry service personnel, firefighters, and the veterinary emergency response team from Texas A&M University at College Station.

The DR team set up next door to Stanley Ford at Eastland and made breakfasts, lunches, and suppers for the frontline workers, some of whom were housed in a village of climate-controlled tents erected on the parking lot.

The Aggie veterinarians, under the direction of Dr. Wesley Bissett, were treating small animals and pets, some at a temporary headquarters at a nearby cattle auction facility. The team of 17 vets and techs also visited local vet clinics and area ranches, where they observed a significant loss of pets and livestock and treated injured herds. They also wrapped the paws of search and rescue dogs to protect them.

Expressing appreciation for SBTC DR and Salvation Army’s efforts to feed them, veterinarian and A&M professor Dr. Debra Zoran described the team’s nearly 24-7 work, including late-night callouts for sick animals. “On these deployments, typically when you’re super busy … you need fuel to keep going,” Zoran said.

The opportunity to interact with first responders like the firefighters and Aggie vets keeps the SBTC DR volunteers going, too, team leader Debby Nichols of Texarkana said. “We like to look them in the eye and tell them to have a good day,” Nichols said, adding that team members had also prayed with responders.

An SBTC DR feeding crew teamed with the Salvation Army to feed first responders in Eastland. Here the Salvation Army's Jimmy Stanford at left chats with SA volunteers Yvonne Balderas and Ivette Ramirez in dark blue and, from left, SBTC DR's Linda Mitter, Peggy Sanders, LaJuana Garner, Grintz, McVey, Nichols, and Freddy Dikes. JANE RODGERS PHOTO

SBTC DR volunteer Sharon Grintz spoke of praying with a Carbon couple who lost their home but found the wife’s first wedding band amidst the debris.

Nichols said the team expected to work through March 24.

Marilyn McVey of Flint said she came to SBTC DR following management careers in the grocery business. McVey and her husband, Brad, moved from northern Missouri to retire early on Lake Palestine three years ago. They attended an SBTC DR training course at their new church, Flint Baptist, and found their retirement calling.

An SBTC DR QRU mobile kitchen had a brief deployment serving responders and survivors in Carbon. LINDA MITTER PHOTO

“All the background we’ve had, the places we’ve worked, it’s just amazing that God prepared us for this,” McVey said, adding that Brad also has served on recovery teams but that she mostly stays with feeding.

Nichols’s team of eight SBTC DR volunteers plus two Salvation Army volunteers from Big Lake, sisters on their first deployment, split time between cooking in the trailer, serving food, welcoming guests, and maintaining the eating area.

Jimmy Stanford, Salvation Army Texas division emergency services manager, praised the working relationship between his organization and SBTC DR, noting multiple deployments in which he personally had worked with the volunteers present and many others.

“We actually love the partnership with the Baptists,” Stanford said.

As of March 22, 54,463 acres had burned in the Eastland County Complex. Most evacuees from Brown and Eastland counties had returned home. Gov. Greg Abbott proclaimed on March 18 that wildfires dating from late February posed an imminent threat to 11 Texas counties: Brooks, Brown, Coleman, Comanche, Eastland, Grayson, Mason, Potter, Randall, Reynolds, and Williamson.

Marilyn McVey of Flint draws on knowledge from years in the grocery business as an SBTC DR feeding volunteer. JANE RODGERS PHOTO

The wildfires weren’t the last of the disasters to strike the Lone Star State this month. Dozens of tornadoes spawned by severe weather beginning March 21 prompted a second disaster declaration from the governor the next day for Bastrop, Cass, Cooke, Grayson, Guadalupe, Houston, Jack, Madison, Marion, Montague, Nacogdoches, Panola, Rusk, Upshur, Williamson, and Wise counties.

More than half the SBTC DR volunteers came from towns and counties affected by high winds and tornados that struck while they were deploying at Eastland. A brief tornado warning even sent the volunteers to seek shelter in Eastland themselves.

SBTC DR Director Scottie Stice confirmed that recovery teams are deploying to Eastland County.

Storm response begins in East Texas

In other SBTC DR news, in response to the recent tornadoes, Stice said that an SBTC DR quick response kitchen and shower unit is scheduled to arrive in Jacksboro on March 23. Assessors have also traveled to the Round Rock area, including Hutto, Elgin, and Taylor, to determine needs. Assessment continues in the Texoma area and has already occurred in Crockett and Madisonville. Additionally, a shower and laundry unit requested by county emergency management will deploy to Ore City.

A large SBTC DR operation including assessors, recovery volunteers, a command post, shower unit, generators, and bunkhouse trailer is established at New Beginnings Baptist Church in Gilmer, Stice said. Teams will minister to survivors from the Gilmer area.

Romania and Moldova

SBTC DR workers departed March 21 with a Send Relief team on a fact-finding mission to determine how to best minister to Ukrainian refugees fleeing their country for Romania and Moldova. A second Send Relief team, also with SBTC DR volunteers, will depart for Eastern Europe on March 30, Stice confirmed.

“We call up and they go,” Stice said. “We are happy to serve survivors in Texas and throughout the world and bring the love of Jesus to them.”

Donations to SBTC DR can be given here.

Pastor, hundreds of miles away being treated for cancer, blessed as his church steps up and stays strong

Daryl Hall FBC Freer cancer

FREER—Daryl Hall doesn’t like to talk about himself.

He doesn’t necessarily like to talk about his prostate cancer battle, either—about the yearlong struggle to find treatment at the height of the COVID pandemic, the 400-mile trip from FBC Freer to Irving (a suburb of Dallas) that he considered attempting weekly, or the grueling proton therapy that would be waiting for him once he arrived.

In fact, if you ask him about it, he’ll probably tell you the doctors caught the cancer early and that he’ll be fine.

There are things Hall likes to talk about, however, like his church. He loves to talk about his church—and how it has carried on the work of ministry in his absence.

FBC Freer has blessed Hall with the ability to stay in Irving rather than make a series of nearly 1,000-mile round trip commutes for cancer treatments, which will end in the next couple of weeks. Once they are done, he will have been away from the church for a total of about six weeks—a span of time he didn’t initially believe was possible.

The trek north for treatment that first Sunday left him exhausted not only from the sheer miles and the therapy, but also because he bore the concerns common to those who shepherd a flock: church finances, scheduling, a concern of feeling disconnected from his congregation while being away for days at a time. Staying in Irving for the duration of the treatment and not commuting—as church leaders had encouraged him to do from the beginning—just didn’t seem like an option.

The second Sunday, however, provided a relief that alleviated his and his wife Laura’s concerns and weariness. They had rushed home to see two of their deacons ordained, and the church was in full swing without him—from the deacons themselves, their wives, other church members, and neighboring church members. It was enough to encourage Hall that he could stay in Irving for the rest of his therapy, and he had peace that the church would be OK in his absence.

He has since watched the church flourish and is thrilled with the notion that it has stayed on mission. The deacons have led in services and prayer, made ministry calls, and ministered to Daryl and Laura, as well. Nearly every congregant has called, the children have made gifts, and the ladies class has made cards. The children’s ministry has also grown, and after an outreach in which free light bulbs were handed out in the community to share that Jesus is the light of the world, three new families joined the congregation of about 50.

Hall likens his congregation to the widow’s mite and salt of the earth, saying, “They give all they have—above their tithe, their work, their sweat. It is all about the Great Commission to them regardless of the pastor or anything else.”

His extended stay in DFW Metroplex has brought other blessings and revelations, as well. As a Tennessee native who moved to Texas only five years ago, getting started in ministry in the Lone Star State and making connections pastoring a church about an hour from the Mexico border proved difficult. Yet this year, he was able to meet and network with other pastors and leaders at the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention’s annual Empower conference—held earlier this month across the street from the Irving hotel where he has been staying. At Empower, Hall said people continually stopped to encourage and pray for him simply due to a picture taken and posted on Facebook by Alex Gonzales, a church health and leadership associate who works with the SBTC and had asked for prayer for the pastor.

These aren’t incidental details to him. When first diagnosed, Daryl considered seeking treatment at MD Anderson in Houston, which would have been closer for him and Laura, but that plan ended up not working out. He now knows that, between the Facebook connections, Empower, and seeing First Baptist Freer thrive that the Lord wanted him in Irving for a reason: to reacquaint himself with his first love and to confirm something he already knew—how healthy the church really is.

“Because if the church is not healthy because you’re not there,” he said, “it’s not healthy.”

Hall’s faith has been central to healing and recovery. He has spent a lot of time praying, learning to be thankful, and reflecting on ministry. He has considered ministry careers versus the essence of the calling, asking himself, “Have you used your time and relationship with Christ wisely? Are you making disciples? Do you have a heart for the lost?” He said he has developed a thankfulness that God would include him in His mission. Even though Christ does not need us, Hall has been reminded, He chooses, wants, and uses us. And in recognizing his privilege in being in the service to his King, he asks himself now, based on Hebrews 12:28, “Am I making an acceptable sacrifice?”

With treatment soon in the rearview, Hall is developing a sermon series on gratitude and has started a blog entitled “Living Freer,” in which he gives a devotional on thanksgiving for every day of treatment. In building the blog, it dawned on him that he needed to take his own advice rather than dwell on the cancer and being away from the church. He says God is using this season to teach him and show him “all the ways He has blessed me.”

The Halls are focused on what’s ahead. They are working on a feature film titled “Armor” about ministry for children to benefit smaller SBTC churches. They are considering a barrel race and skeet shoot to raise funds, as well. All big ideas, all 100% for the sake of the mission.

Not that anything is too big for even the smallest of churches steeped in the power of the Holy Spirit and laser-focused on the gospel mission.

“I am humbled at the commitment of this tiny, multi-ethnic and multi-generational church,” Hall said. “These are very humble people with the deepest commitment to be the light of the world.”

Reports of God’s provision pour in from frontlines of Ukranian refugee response

SBTC DR Ukraine

WARSAW, Poland—When veteran Southern Baptists of Texas Convention Disaster Relief chaplain and assessor Linda Mitter of Rockwall was asked to join a Send Relief fact-finding team headed to Poland, she didn’t think she would go.

“I thought there were others who could serve better. I prayed about it. I felt God saying yes,” Mitter said, adding that after the decision was made, she experienced “complete peace.”

Mitter was a member of the Send Relief Disaster Assistance Response Team (DART), led by Tom Beam, North Carolina Baptist DR director. The team also included Ohio Baptist DR director John Heading and three other North Carolinians, one a medical doctor. The team met in Chicago on March 4 and flew to Warsaw, arriving the following day.

Their task? Assess the needs of Polish Baptist churches and entities ministering to Ukrainian refugees fleeing their country following Russia’s Feb. 24 invasion. To date, more than 3 million Ukrainians—half of whom are children—have sought refuge throughout Europe, with Poland generally their first stop.

The DART crew determined how the national network of 42 U.S. state Baptist DR teams and eventually, U.S. churches, could help. They encouraged Polish Baptist leaders and pastors and returned stateside March 14 with recommendations for organizing and quickly deploying SBDR teams and resources.

Mitter said Polish authorities at the Ukrainian border had well-organized reception centers where the refugees received help with housing and immediate needs. Many Ukrainians were just passing through to other destinations in the EU and abroad. Others were welcomed into private homes by citizens in Poland and surrounding countries.

Churches and Baptist organizations were also providing temporary and long-term shelter for refugees. Undergirding them would be a primary goal of Send Relief and SBDR.

“We learned there are 115 Baptist churches in Poland, less than 10,000 members. Many are tiny churches with 50 or fewer in the congregation. Right now, 40 churches are helping and 20 of those already have refugees,” Mitter said.

During their nine full days in the country, the team traveled across Poland from Warsaw to Krakow to destinations such as the border city of Chelm, tiny Zelow, and Gdansk.

The schedule was packed, the travel exhausting, the meetings plentiful and productive, Mitter said. Her stories were plentiful, too, and included poignant moments of fellowship and obvious indicators of God’s presence and provision.

Warsaw: Needs met

Warsaw was their first base, where the team met at the Warsaw Baptist Seminary with IMB missionaries and Polish Baptist representatives, including Mateusz Wichary, former Baptist Union of Poland president and current vice president of the European Baptist Federation. Wichary told them 75-80% of the refugees would stay in Poland, necessitating long-term assistance. He expressed concern about the 100,000 refugees pouring across the border every day.

Conversations centered on financial and facility issues, then Wichary mentioned the depressed emotional state of many refugees. To immediately assist those working with refugees, Heading offered to conduct a condensed training class in grief counseling and crisis management, which took place Sunday afternoon, March 6.

The team also explored area churches and facilities currently or potentially housing refugees.

3. Mitter said the border reception for Ukrainian refugees was well-organized and efficient. More than 3 million Ukrainians have fled their country for safety in Poland since the Russian invasion. COURTESY PHOTO

Zelow: Prepared beforehand

At Zelow, some 2.5 hours from Warsaw, they met Pastor Greg Skobal, whose 25-member congregation was working hard installing showers and an additional bathroom to prepare the church for refugees due March 14.

The church had been updating its 126-year-old facilities for over a year and had made some changes that seemed unnecessary at the time. Alterations such as the addition of an extra water line would serve the refugees they hadn’t expected to host when the renovations started.

Skobal has plans for a future orphanage and a mission in Belchatw. “Pastor Greg is very passionate and excited about helping the refugees,” Mitter said.

Chelm: Nearest the border

The Baptist church at Chelm (pronounced Helm), a city of around 64,000 only 16 miles from the Ukrainian border, contains the evangelical church closest to the border, Mitter said.

Even before the Russian invasion, Chelm Baptist pastor Henryk Skrzypkowski and his church began purchasing beds, blankets, and other supplies for the impending influx of refugees, the pastor told Paul Chitwood during the IMB president’s visit there in early March.

“Pastor Henrik said he is learning exactly what it means to trust God as with the loaves and fish,” Mitter said. “They have bought four washers and five dryers. So many needs and God keeps providing.”

Refugee children in the busy church shelter played while their mothers chatted. Skrzypkowski has many connections with his Ukrainian neighbors, Mitter said, and many have sent their relatives to him and the church for assistance. The pastor has 16 children himself, seven biological ones and nine foster children, three of whom have special needs.

Mitter said that from the first day of the war, the church has received about 200 refugees per day to spend the night. Another hundred may pass through daily, stopping for meals, showers, and clothes. Church volunteers, with help from a local restaurant, serve about 350 meals twice a day. A local nurse stops in to attend to medical needs. The pastor is exhausted, Mitter said, adding that the team’s physician, Dr. Dan Phillips, treated several refugees at Chelm.

The environment is safe and welcoming. One seven-year-old boy even cried when it was time to move on. He didn’t want to leave the place.

The church’s large warehouse is being used to store goods for refugees at Chelm and throughout Poland.

Skrzypkowski said that tens of thousands of refugees are being cared for in Polish homes, calling it a “miracle,” as animosities dating from World War II that had spawned hatred have vanished.

“Now the Ukrainians see that no one is helping like Poland,” Skrzypkowski said.

Gdansk: American president paves the way

At Gdansk, the team met at First Baptist to discuss needs and tour the facility, which had been converted to accommodate 40 but was housing 60 refugees per night.

“They were in every room,” Mitter said, adding that a large house in the back of the property was also housing 20 more long-term refugees.

The facility is larger than the congregation needs. When it was built in the 1980s, it was customary to submit building plans for approval that were twice as large as needed, expecting authorities to approve only half the size of any structure. U.S. President Jimmy Carter happened to be visiting Gdansk when the church filed its building proposal and authorities, in a goodwill gesture inspired by Carter (a Baptist), approved the entire construction project decades before it would be needed to house refugees.

Elder Ruston, from Second Baptist of Gdansk, told the group he had been sad to move to that city five years ago after ministering for years in Ukraine. Now, as he helps search for permanent housing for refugees, he knows why he was sent to Gdansk, Mitter said.

The gospel prevails

The team developed recommendations for Send Relief and presented them to Polish Baptist leaders before flying home on March 14. Under the coordination of Send Relief, regarding Poland, it was recommended that North Carolina DR teams serve in the Warsaw area, Texas Baptist Men staff the warehouse at Chelm, and SBDR teams from Ohio, Louisiana, and Tennessee work in the Gdansk area.

SBTC DR Director Scottie Stice confirmed on March 16 that SBTC DR will be joined by SBDR teams from California, Missouri, and Arkansas to minister in nearby Romania and Moldova, countries also receiving massive numbers of refugees. Two multi-state DR contingents including SBTC DR personnel will depart for Romania on March 21 and 26, he said.

What initially began as a one-month deployment of four teams spread out over 30 days in Eastern Europe is now expected to become a six-month mission, Stice said. Once systems are in place, churches will have opportunities to also send teams to assist, he added.

“We’re there to be a blessing to the Romanian and Moldovan churches as they minister to the Ukrainians. At the same time, we pray for the gospel to go forth,” Stice said.

The gospel has already gone forth, Mitter emphasized, sharing a Polish pastor’s account of Ukrainian soldiers who told him they can feel both the prayers of the people and sense God’s protection.

Donations toward the ongoing crisis response can be given here.

SBTC DR joins multi-state Send Relief response as Ukrainian refugee crisis intensifies

Ukraine refugee SBTC DR

On the heels of the return of a Send Relief Disaster Assistance Response Team (DART) to the U.S., Southern Baptists of Texas Disaster Relief personnel will join other Southern Baptist Disaster Relief workers in a coordinated effort to serve the needs of Ukrainian refugees fleeing their country following the Feb. 24 Russian invasion.

Some 3 million refugees to date have fled Ukraine, with more than half going to Poland and others headed to various European Union countries, including Moldova, Romania, Slovakia, and Hungary, various news agencies reported. According to figures released by UNICEF on March 15, children comprise about half of the Ukrainians seeking refuge in other parts of Europe.

From March 4-14, SBTC DR chaplain and assessor Linda Mitter of Rockwall participated with the DART crew in Poland on a fact-finding and assistance mission to help plan SBDR’s overall response to the crisis. Mitter joined five SBDR representatives from North Carolina and Ohio, including two state Baptist DR directors: Tom Beam of North Carolina and John Heading of Ohio.

Mitter said the team observed a coordinated response to the refugee crisis along the Polish-Ukrainian border. Numerous Polish Baptist churches are helping to temporarily house and feed refugees and, for migrants not en route to another European country, assisting them to find permanent housing in Poland.

SBDR teams from various states are now deploying to help Polish churches and Baptist organizations in the manner prescribed by the DART observers.

Under the coordination of Send Relief, SBTC DR’s role will shift from Poland to Moldova and Romania, SBTC DR Director Scottie Stice said.

“Many facts and patterns of refugee movement that Linda discovered in Poland are similar to what can be found in Romania and Moldova,” Stice said. “Romania is considered the second destination of choice for those fleeing Ukraine.”

On Monday, March 21, Wally Leyerle, SBTC DR associate, and SBTC DR volunteer Lynn Kurtz of Waxahachie, will join SBDR workers from Missouri and California to travel to Romania on a discovery mission similar to the original DART mission to Poland.

“They will be fact-finding and setting up support for Romanian churches helping refugees. They will also assist in establishing a border ministry not unlike that of Pastor Carlos Navarro and West Brownsville Baptist in the Rio Grande Valley,” Stice said. The Romanian border outreach will provide refreshments, charging stations, and otherwise assist the refugees as they prepare to move to their next destinations.

“It’s a small window of ministry before they move on,” Stice said, adding that SBDR—and SBTC DR—involvement is expected to expand to nearby Moldova soon.

What initially began as a one-month deployment of four teams spread out over 30 days in Eastern Europe is now expected to become a six-month mission, which will also involve helping Baptist groups coordinate shipments of supplies from Poland, Romania, and Moldova to seminaries, churches, and Baptist organizations within Ukraine, Stice said.

Arkansas Baptist DR will be joining SBTC DR, California, and Missouri, he said, explaining that once DR teams get the systems operational, churches will have the opportunity to also send teams to assist in the ministry, supplementing DR volunteers.

“We’re there to be a blessing to the Romanian and Moldovan churches as they minister to the Ukrainians. At the same time, we pray for the gospel to go forth,” Stice said, confirming that a second multi-state SBDR team including SBTC DR volunteers is scheduled to depart for Romania on March 26.

12 ways to pray for your wife

  1. Pray that you would be filled with the Holy Spirit so that He gives you the grace you need (Ephesians 5:18).
  2. Pray that you love her as God loves us and sent his Son to be the propitiation (wrath-quencher) for our sins: “Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another” (1 John 4:10-11).
  3. Pray that you would love her sacrificially as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25). That you would give yourself up for her. That you would love her in a self-sacrificial way. That you would study her and learn what she needs and even what she likes. That you would listen to her. That you would serve her instead of expecting her to serve you. That you would love her in such a way that the lost would see a picture of who God is (Ephesians 5:28-33). That you would “love, lead, and serve her like Christ in such a way that your heart, your words, and your actions toward your wife would woo her, win her, and sanctify her, leading her to joyfully submit to your leadership. Remember that is how Jesus loves, serves, and leads you. He is gentle and lowly in heart.” — Pastor Nick Esch*
  4. Pray that you would understand her, honor her, and treat her as the weaker vessel like a fine china doll (1 Peter 3:7 – Notice the second part of this verse: that your prayers be unhindered. If you wonder why God is not answering your prayers, this may be your reason).
  5. Pray that your words would build her up and give her grace; that you would never put her down or speak badly of her even in jest (Ephesians 4:29).
  6. Pray that you would always be kind and tenderhearted to her; quick to forgive (Ephesians 4:32). When we forgive, we are being like Christ (Matthew 18:21-35). “Our joy in forgiving others is directly connected to the unspeakable, glorious joy of God’s forgiveness of us and his great delight in us.” — John Piper
  7. Pray that you would be a one-woman kind of man. You would only have eyes for her. (Some guys jokingly say, “Just because I have made my selection doesn’t mean I can’t look at the menu.”  That is wrong in so many ways. Pray that you are so satisfied with the wife God gave you that you never look at another woman in an ungodly way or a way that would make your wife insecure. You would always remember that marriage is permanent. You would never wonder “What if?” no matter what. You would never withhold your love from her no matter what. You stay with her no matter what. Your heart would beat for her no matter what.
  8. Pray that you would have the patience toward her that God showed towards Israel (Exodus 34:6, Psalm 86:15, Psalm 103:8, Joel 2:3).
  9. Pray that you would overlook minor offenses but lovingly and gently confront when necessary (Proverbs 19:11, Matthew 8:15, Ephesians 4:26).
  10. Pray that you would look beyond her faults as God overlooks ours (Isaiah 43:25).
  11. Pray that you would lead her to be more like Christ (Ephesians 5:25-33).
  12. Pray that you would be a constant encourager for her (1 Thessalonians 5:11).

In the unlikely event you did not notice, all these are really about praying for yourself so that you can be the leader God intended. In fact, Daniel prayed for himself before praying for his people (Dan 9:20-21). So next time you are frustrated with your wife, next time you are struggling to do these things, remember to pray for yourself first and then you will better be able to pray for her.

* Permission is granted to copy and use provided it is not changed

No matter how old we are, we all need a mentor

The older I get, the more I recognize that accomplishing what this title suggests is not easy. Eventually, we become one of the very old—and the number of faithful Christ-followers older than we are becomes increasingly hard to find. Nevertheless, I think we should try.

My pastoral mentor, Tom, is in his 70s. His long-term mentor died a few years ago at age 101. Still, though, Tom has two other mentors—one who is 88, and the other 97! Tom recently told me he was “trying to pull out of them all I can.” As my mentor, Tom continues to teach me about needing mentors despite increasing age. Here are some reasons why we need older mentors:

All of us will have room for growth until the Lord calls us home

None of us will have “arrived,” no matter how old we get. If we think we have, we’ve just provided another reason to have a mentor who keeps us straight—and who most certainly knows more than we know.

All of us need someone whose faithfulness challenges us

We need someone we can look to who has already walked before us—and who has remained faithful all the way. Watching someone follow God fully “all the way” is both encouraging and convicting.

All of us need someone in our life who’s walked where we’re headed

We still face new things as we age; in fact, we often journey down paths of health problems, retirement issues, etc., that we have not traveled before. Having an older mentor who has already walked these paths is surely beneficial.

All of us need someone in our life who is finishing well

Sadly, even some older church leaders have fallen morally. Apparently, no one is immune from strong temptation. We need to see others who’ve walked before us, fought the fight, and run the race well.

All of us need a veteran believer praying for us

Actually, we need any prayer warriors we can get on our side – but there’s something special about someone older than we are interceding for us to follow the Lord well. Veteran believers usually know how to pray.

It’s good for us to see older believers face death in faith

I realize this reason sounds morbid, but it never hurts us to see undying faith—even in the face of death. In the paraphrased words of New Testament professor Bill Lane to his student, Michael Card, it’s good for us to see “how a Christian man dies.”*

So, no matter how old you are, ask God to give you an older mentor. Keep looking until you find one, and “pull out of him [or her] all you can.” If you have no one who lives near you, contact someone who lives elsewhere. You can still learn from a mentor via electronic means.

This article originally appeared at chucklawless.com.

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*Michael Card. The Walk: A Moment in Time When Two Lives Intersect (Kindle Locations 572-573). Kindle Edition.