Author: Russell Lightner

Sharing our homes and our lives for Jesus’ sake

My husband, Dale, and I married 11 years ago—I was widowed and he was divorced—and the thing that attracted us to one another was a mutual interest in missions. Dale was a missionary kid. He grew up in Africa. My first husband and I had been involved in short-term mission trips, so that was kind of the key thing that drew us together.

During this time, my best friend had been teaching English as a Second Language (ESL) and she kept telling me I would like volunteering for ESL after I retired. I retired shortly after we married, and I was like, “OK, I am going to give this a try.” I did and was asked to teach the beginning English class to people who know almost no English. I enjoyed it immensely, interacting with them and getting to know their backgrounds. As I got more comfortable with the teaching part of it, God began to move in my heart that I needed to do more than just teach them. I needed to befriend them and be involved in their lives however I could.

God began to show me that this was a way to reach the nations. After a missions training course at our church [Church at the Cross in Grapevine], I began praying for ways to connect with my students. It began with taking some students to lunch and sharing the gospel with them.

“We were willing to go overseas, and we have, but we’ve seen that there’s a huge mission field right here in our town and our own neighborhood.”

Through our women’s ministry I learned of a need [on the internet]—a mother and daughter, refugees from Cuba, were looking for a place to live. First I looked at it and I thought, “Huh, that’s interesting. I’ll just watch this post and see if anybody responds to it.” After a day or two, there were no responses. I showed it to Dale. I said, “What do you think about this?” He encouraged me to find out more, pointing out that we had the resources to provide housing, food, and transportation, and we weren’t uncomfortable with people who speak a different language. One step at a time we looked into it [and met] Griset and her 14-year-old daughter Chanely by Zoom (it was during COVID). We ended up welcoming them into our home in 2020.

They will have been with us four years this August. Dale taught Griset to drive and we helped her do the things that allowed her to get a green card and a job. Our goal is for them to be independent, but there’s been a lot of challenges. Chanely graduated from Grapevine High School in May. Both Griset and Chanely have trusted Christ and were baptized into our church.  

Chanely, Katerina, Debbie, Griset, and Honza at Katerina and Honza’s naturalization ceremony. All four have come to faith in Christ in the last two years and have been baptized at Church at the Cross. Katerina and Honza are from the Czech Republic and are now American citizens.

But that’s just one layer of the story. After things opened up after COVID, I went back to teaching ESL in-person and I started praying, “God, show me who of my students is open to the gospel and who you want me to invest my time in on a more personal level.” That first year back a new student came to my class for the first time. She was from [a Muslim country]. God led me to befriend and invest in her. We’ve had her family to dinner at our house and they have invited us to dinner in their home. All the while she was improving her English and I was learning more about reaching Muslims with the gospel. A second answer to prayer was a relationship I formed with a lady from the Czech Republic. She had a keen spiritual interest, and both she and her husband have now received Christ and been baptized into our church. 

Dale and I had always said that when he retired, we wanted to do some more international mission trips and maybe even do something a little longer term. He retired a couple of years ago and we went on a church mission trip to Japan. But I told Dale, “We could do something else. Let’s see what other opportunities are out there.”

Debbie (far left) sharing Jesus with Muslims in Europe.

So, I went to the International Mission Board’s website and looked at short-term mission opportunities for people our age. The one that popped out at me offered us the chance to witness to tourists from Muslim countries as they visited Europe. We went on a trip and shared with people for about five hours a day for two weeks. When we came home, we were like, “Wow, that was amazing. We want to do this again next year.” We’re actually going to a different spot next time.

We were willing to go overseas, and we have, but we’ve seen that there’s a huge mission field right here in our town and our own neighborhood. It’s been a process, a journey, for us. We’ve learned some important things along the way. Maybe the most important is to take a step toward immigrants or people of other beliefs and engage them. You show them love, share the Bible with them, pray with them in Jesus’ name. You don’t have to know everything there is to know about their religion. You’ve just got to know who Jesus is.

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5 minutes with Kaibin Fu

Kaibin Fu was born and raised in China and answered God’s call to full-time ministry in 2012. He is the founding and lead pastor of Trinity Chinese Church, a congregation of 200, in the Allen/McKinney area, and also a founder of a new network of Southern Baptists of Texas Convention Chinese pastors. He is married to Jihong and they have four children: David, Daniel, Christopher, and Joy.

What is something you’ve been able to celebrate at Trinity Chinese Church recently?

We celebrated Good Friday and Easter with a 48-hour fast. At Easter, our focus was on Christ’s death. We emphasized Passion Week and had a daily devotional focused on Jesus’ life that lasted a week. On Thursday, we had a Passover meal. On Friday night, we asked leaders and others to voluntarily start fasting. Scripture and prayers all focused on the crucifixion. On Saturday morning, we held a prayer meeting. On Sunday, we attended a sunrise service with other Chinese churches. At our church [we rent a building from another church], we had afternoon Easter services to celebrate Christ’s resurrection. Many people were touched by the Spirit that week. Also, April 26-28, we had our second annual missions weekend, with workshops and activities. Missionaries shared. We visited local Muslim, Hindu, and refugee communities. 

What are some of the biggest challenges you’ve faced in your ministry lately? 

We grew pretty fast, particularly in the first two years. We have had to move to a larger place. Our afternoon worship [time] is not ideal. We have bought land and plan to build, but construction costs are high. Our leadership believes we need our own building … for a church and a training and missions center. Our rate of growth has leveled off, also, because of building limitations. 

What’s a lesson you’ve learned to this point of your ministry you know you’ll never forget? 

Our building limitations are a visible challenge. An invisible challenge is to remember that the church is the Lord’s church. In my 12 years since seminary, the Lord has taught me that it is His church … not my church. I should not worry so much. Nor should I take credit for the church. We also have an opportunity to create a church culture. In the church, everyone has a role. As pastor, I am part of the church, but we all have our roles. 

What’s one thing you’d like to see God do specifically at Trinity this year? 

So far, we have had 26 people baptized, but I want to see more local evangelism and more baptisms. Our growth is primarily from migrants from California and the West Coast, from Chinese immigrants who don’t go to church regularly, and some people from other churches. We give thanks for the 26, but we want to see more.

How can other SBTC churches be praying for you?

I really appreciate all the SBTC resources [and] would like to see the new Chinese pastors network grow. There are 18 Chinese churches affiliated with SBTC, 12 in the DFW area. I hope this can bring these Chinese churches together, not to emphasize Chinese culture but to maximize our roles in the church. There are over 100,000 Chinese people in the DFW Metroplex. At most, 5% percent go to church regularly.

Abilene church lauds Regenesis boost as it reaches more of its community

Growing and ready to go

A couple of years ago, North Park Baptist Church had dwindled to about 30 people on Sundays, mostly senior adults. Now attendance has doubled and people in their 30s and 40s have joined.

What has made the difference is God working through a new pastor and the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention’s Regenesis process. The church also voted late last year to affiliate with the SBTC, which Joe Grizzle, North Park’s pastor, described as having “such vibrance and youth and excitement.”

A young woman who grew up in the church and now lives in Dallas told Grizzle, “I can see life in this church again.”

“I can see life in this church again.”

Shortly after Grizzle arrived at North Park in early 2022, he was told “if things didn’t change, in six months they were probably going to have to shut the doors.” Then Grizzle got connected through the local association to Shane Kendrix, SBTC’s regional catalyst in that area of the state.

“He texted me and we met for coffee or lunch. We’ve had about 6 million of [those meetings] since then,” Grizzle said, illustrating the commitment Kendrix has shown to the church. North Park attended the SBTC’s Equip Conference, which aims to train leaders in the local church, and took nine people.

“I kept saying, ‘This isn’t our state convention,’” Grizzle said, but his church members noted the value of the trainings offered and the connections they made with other people in attendance.

As 2023 arrived, North Park began to see some improvement—making budget and having a few more people attend. But the church kept hosting block parties and hardly anyone showed up, Grizzle said. 

They started planning a fall festival, and when the pastor asked a member to help, the response was: It’s going to be just like everything else we’ve done. We may get a dozen kids, and it’s going to be a lot of work for nothing.

Meanwhile, Kendrix told Grizzle about Regenesis, a revitalization emphasis, and the pastor hesitated because “we’re not SBTC.” Kendrix said, “It doesn’t matter.” 

“It all spoke volumes. Not once did someone go, ‘You really should join the SBTC.’ And do you know what that made?” Grizzle said. “That made me want to join the SBTC.”

New life has been infused into the church, where a discipleship process is taking root. Submitted photos 

At the fall festival, the fellowship hall was mostly filled with families, which Grizzle considered “beyond a success compared to everything else.” 

During the first Regenesis meeting at North Park, members of various churches were being transparent about their congregations, and someone from North Park said she didn’t feel like she was being discipled. 

That was a hard comment to hear, but Grizzle shot into action in the coming days, asking pastors and other people to define discipleship and how they had been discipled. 

“I got different answers from everybody I asked. Nobody was on the same page,” he said. 

He ultimately landed on curriculum developed by a ministry called discipleFIRST, and he and his wife started working through it with the church member who said she wasn’t being discipled, along with her husband.

“Discipleship has come out of Regenesis. It has changed us,” Grizzle said. “It’s a small part of our church at this point, but we have this vision. Discipleship is going to spread.”

“I’m excited about what the future holds and what God’s going to do.”

North Park is a neighborhood church, and when Grizzle first went door-to-door in the community, he found people were not familiar with the church despite its presence just down the street. Now more people recognize the name.

“The key to Regenesis is being intentional and sitting down and figuring out how you’re going to get from here to there,” Grizzle said. “In the meantime, God is working. You don’t just shut the church down while you’re doing Regenesis. We have absolutely seen God working during this eight months of Regenesis, and it’s been mind-blowing.”

Recently a new member told the pastor, “It’s just amazing what God is doing in bringing some young people.” About that time, seven people joined the church—all under age 40, Grizzle said. Five people were lined up to be baptized.

Last December, after receiving so much help from the SBTC and observing the effectiveness and the kindness of the convention, North Park voted to uniquely affiliate. 

“I’m excited about what the future holds and what God’s going to do,” Grizzle said.

Despite deadly storms, ‘the light of the gospel continues’

CELINA—Rapidly developing storms spawned tornadoes and ripped through a series of North Texas communities on Memorial Day weekend, leaving debris, death, and disbelief in their wake. 

Seven people in North Texas were among the 22 who lost their lives across several states as a result of the storms. Homes across the region were reduced to toppled brick, splinters, and mangled metal.

As news stations surveyed the damage in Celina, one camera caught a compelling image—that of a makeshift cross (shown at top right) someone had constructed using two pieces of wood that once belonged to a structure. It was a symbol of the Christlike sacrifice already underway.

As Southern Baptists of Texas Disaster Relief volunteers began deploying to affected areas around the state, members of Legacy Hills Church, a Southern Baptists of Texas Convention church plant in Celina, were helping friends and neighbors begin to pick up the pieces immediately after the storm—even as some suffered damage to their own homes.

“Today was a devastating day for many in Celina,” Robert Welch, senior pastor of Legacy Hills, wrote on Facebook, “but it’s been awesome to see this growing community dig in so deep and care for one another. So proud and grateful for the many [Legacy Hills Church] men and women who were willing to rally immediately and spend their day using their hands, feet, and hearts to help those who lost so much.”

Two days later, Prestonwood Baptist Church Senior Pastor Jack Graham reported in a video posted on social media that the Plano campus had suffered significant damage. Even so, Graham—standing in a light rain and walking amidst a debris field of soggy insulation scattered across the church’s parking lot—said he was proud of the efforts of Prestonwood members who were reaching out to help those in their community.

“You can blow down the walls, you can blow down the church,” Graham said, “but the witness—the light of the gospel—continues.”

Calling a ministry time-out

Ijust talked to a highly effective yet exhausted pastor who was looking for some ministry coaching on keeping a sustainable schedule. This particular conversation happened to be on the same day I read Mark 6, a passage which finds Jesus and His apostles depleted after the funeral of John the Baptist: 

“His disciples … came and removed his corpse and placed it in a tomb. The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to Him all that they had done and taught. He said to them, ‘Come away by yourselves to a remote place and rest for a while.’ For many people were coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat. So they went away in the boat by themselves to a remote place” (Mark 6:29-32).

Jesus and His dozen disciple-apostles were exhausted from a ministry sprint that included Him resurrecting Jarius’ daughter followed immediately by the execution of John the Baptist. One thing ministry peaks and valleys have in common is they leave us exhausted and in need of a recharge. 

Perhaps I’ve caught you at the end of a ministry sprint and you are in much need of a time-out. I found a few practical reasons in this passage to do just that: 

Take a time-out to assess your ministry

I don’t know how many times I have experienced the burn of burnout only to look on my calendar and see how long it had been since I took a real break from my ministry routine. If you have gone more than three months without taking a break from preaching or teaching, you will experience this burn. 

Remember that you are an equipper who has been called to prepare others for ministry. If you are not equipping people for ministry, you are robbing them of it and inadvertently robbing yourself of an opportunity to recharge. 

Who speaks into your schedule consistently? Allow a handful of people from your family, ministry, and friendship circles to call a time-out for you when you become blind to your own limitations. 

Take a time-out where nobody needs you

I realize this is much easier to write about than to do. Ironically, it usually takes some effort to get rested. 

Intentional time-outs are usually a result of some advanced planning. Finding a remote cabin or retreat center that is accessible and affordable is something you probably don’t have spare time to research. Why not ask for help? Most of us belong to an association of churches or a denominational organization that can help you find a remote place. 

Take a time-out to care for yourself

Sometimes stress drives us to work through breakfast or lunch. I got into this harmful cycle a few years back and experienced a season of burnout that led to clinical depression. My normal work cycle had become a work cyclone and I neglected my body, mind, and spirit. 

Jesus called a ministry time-out for His leaders because they were tired. Although not every pastor in Texas will read this, I am praying the ones who need it most will respond by taking time for a time-out this summer. 

Southeast Texas couple seeing gospel fruit after answering God’s call to minister in Zambia

'They were ready to send us'

Three sentences were jotted on the piece of paper a church member handed Nicholas Peveto after a morning worship service in 2011: “The time is short. You need to go. Trust God.”

“Do you know what that means?” the church member asked.

“I know exactly what that means,” Peveto answered. 

God had placed a call on Peveto’s heart to serve as a missionary, but he didn’t know when it would be the right time to go. He had served as an associate pastor of families and missions at First Baptist Church in Spurger for five years, and his wife Alyssa also knew they were to be missionaries.

They just didn’t know when.

“It’s roughly the size of the state of Georgia, and we were the only IMB missionaries here for the longest time.”

The church member God used to nudge the Pevetos that day knew handing over the piece of paper might catch them off guard. Even so, she felt compelled to share with them a message God had put on her heart as she listened to Nicholas promote the Lottie Moon Christmas Offering for international missions. 

“I still have that in my Bible. I keep that piece of paper,” Alyssa said. 

That afternoon, the young couple went home, ate lunch, and returned to the church to use the internet and start the application process with the International Mission Board. Later, when they announced their call to the church, “No one was shocked,” Nicholas said. “They were ready to send us.” They arrived on the mission field in 2013.

First Baptist Spurger is a small congregation that would not be able to support missionaries financially on its own, but by giving through the Cooperative Program, the church is able to pool its resources with other churches to support the Pevetos. 

The couple serves in Solwezi, a growing city in a remote area of northwestern Zambia. The area had been without a consistent Southern Baptist witness for nearly 30 years, and though it was not unreached or unengaged, it was underdeveloped spiritually, Nicholas said.

“It’s roughly the size of the state of Georgia, and we were the only IMB missionaries here for the longest time,” he said of their province, noting that an IMB Journeyman recently joined them to target the 65% of the population under age 30 with NextGen ministries. Journeymen are short-term missionaries under the age of 30 sent to reach younger generations.

Solwezi’s population has grown to around 300,000 people, Nicholas said. “We have people from around the world coming to Solwezi for copper mines.” 

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In a church they planted last year, a Chilean man and a South African man help with preaching. A German woman and her husband also feel called to serve as missionaries in Zambia, “so our little church is looking at being their sending church,” Nicholas said.

The Pevetos try not to do anything that cannot be replicated by nationals, said Nicholas, a graduate of Southwestern Seminary. Instead, he focuses on training and mentoring. He also writes and translates material when requested and meets with local leaders.

“On Tuesday, I’m going to drive out 130 kilometers to mentor a guy who is the chairman of the association of churches in that area, kind of like a director of missions,” he said. 

Recently, the Pevetos have started digital engagement, using Facebook to reach a different group of people who are more proficient in communicating using their smart phones. A lot of that digital interaction involves answering questions—something Alyssa can do amid her work at home where she homeschools their two children.

In the past, Alyssa has helped local women realize they can be involved in ministering to abuse victims, prisoners, and orphans. “We want to give them the resources and the tools to make that happen,” she said. 

Zambia’s constitution declares it a Christian nation, Alyssa said, so people are open to the gospel message. The difficulty comes in helping them sort through their foggy cultural understanding of Christianity. 

“A benefit of us staying longer is we’ve learned the way they interpret what we’re saying, and now we’re able to share the gospel in a way that connects with their worldview,” Nicholas added. “We’re having a lot more fruit in evangelism now.”

“A benefit of us staying longer is we’ve learned the way they interpret what we’re saying, and now we’re able to share the gospel in a way that connects with their worldview.”

Cole Clark, pastor of First Baptist Spurger, grew up with Nicholas, even attending the same youth group and graduating from the same high school. The church has been energized toward missions because of their partnership with the Pevetos.

For instance, the church prayed for a specific people group the Pevetos were trying to reach. Once that prayer was answered and inroads were made, the church prayed the new believers would be able to find a place to meet corporately. 

“Then that started happening,” Clark said. “They were trying to make some focused discipleship among women and younger people, and that started to work out. Now they’re at the point where they’re trying to call a pastor there.” 

Such experiences let them know that God uses their prayers, the pastor said, just like He used one of their own to nudge the Pevetos across the globe.

Tras una caída casi mortal, esposa de pastor aprovecha todas las oportunidades para compartir el evangelio

SE SUPONÍA QUE IBA A SER UN RETIRO TRANQUILO, un tiempo para empezar a buscar el plan de Dios para la próxima etapa de sus vidas. 

Después de 50 años de ministerio a tiempo completo, 21 de ellos en la Primera Iglesia Bautista de Galena Park, el pastor Marcos Ramos y su esposa, Irma, sintieron que era hora de jubilarse. Así que planearon una escapada a Holly Lake Ranch, situado justo al norte de Tyler, el pasado mes de diciembre. 

“Aquí está la cabaña”, dijo Marcos mientras estacionaba el coche de la pareja cerca de la cabaña 51. 

Mientras se instalaban, Irma volvió al coche para buscar algo. De regreso a la cabaña, subió el primer escalón y, en un confuso momento de pánico, dejó escapar un profundo grito antes de caer de espaldas. 

Eso es lo último que recuerda Irma. 

Marcos, al oír el grito de su esposa desde el interior de la cabaña, salió corriendo y la encontró tendida en el suelo. Estaba inconsciente y ensangrentada, pues se había dado un fuerte golpe en la cabeza contra el cemento. 

Irma fue trasladada al hospital más cercano, en Tyler, e ingresada en la unidad de cuidados intensivos. El médico de guardia se sorprendió de que no hubiera sufrido una fractura de cráneo, teniendo en cuenta el fuerte golpe que se había dado en la cabeza. 

Irma Ramos (foto arriba a la derecha) con su familia en un partido de béisbol (aparece a la izquierda). FOTOS COMPARTIDAS

“El cerebro de su esposa está nadando en sangre”, dijo el médico a Marcos. 

Irma había sufrido una hemorragia cerebral potencialmente mortal que necesitaría ser drenada lo antes posible. Si no se aliviaba la presión cerebral, podría haber sufrido lesiones cerebrales permanentes o incluso la muerte. 

Tres días después del accidente, el 12 de diciembre, Irma recobró el conocimiento. Podía moverse y sonreír, pero no podía hablar ni comunicarse. No sabía dónde estaba ni reconocía a las personas que la rodeaban, incluida su familia. Los médicos temían que sufriera una pérdida de memoria a largo plazo y prepararon a la familia para que no volviera a reconocerlos. 

‘Dios la va a sanar’ 

Pero cinco días después del accidente––cinco días de intensas oraciones y suplicas de familiares y amigos que aman a Irma––algo empezó a cambiar. Comenzó a pronunciar palabras cortas. Reconoció a las personas reunidas a su alrededor, incluidos sus nietos, cuyos nombres podía recordar y que se habían unido al coro de oraciones que la rodeaba. 

A pesar de lo alentador de la situación, los médicos no tenían esperanzas de que Irma pudiera recuperarse por completo. A sus familiares les dijeron que probablemente su estado mejoraría, pero no estaban seguros de si sufriría algún tipo de parálisis a largo plazo o pérdida de memoria. 

“Tengo fe en que mi madre se va a recuperar y va a estar bien”, dijo su hijo, Sammy, en respuesta al comprensible escepticismo del médico. “Va a caminar y va a poder hablar porque Dios la va a sanar”. 

“Tienes mucha fe”, le dijo el médico a Sammy. “Eso esperamos”. 

Milagrosamente, sólo dos días después, Irma mejoró lo suficiente como para ser trasladada de cuidados intensivos a cuidados intermedios. Empezó a responder bien a la terapia y a comer por sí sola, sin necesidad de un tubo de alimentación. 

En total, Irma pasó 13 días en el hospital de Tyler. Fueron días de espera e incertidumbre, en los que Dios mostró a la familia que no estaban solos. Los miembros de la familia recuerdan cómo pudieron sentir Su presencia y ver Su divina provisión a través del mar de oraciones y ayuda que les fueron enviadas. 

Mientras estuvo hospitalizada, ayuda económica y personal llegó desde lugares como la Convención de los Bautistas del Sur de Texas y la Red de Cuidado Pastoral Lone Star. Amigos y conocidos le llevaron suministros, hermanos y hermanas de las iglesias que pastoreaba Marcos hicieron el largo viaje desde Houston para visitarla y muchos llamaron para dejarle saber a la familia que seguían orando. 

Irma siguió mejorando tanto que, justo antes de Navidad, Dios permitió que ella y Marcos regresaran a Houston para celebrar las fiestas en su ciudad. Fue ingresada en un hospital donde comenzó un proceso de rehabilitación de 14 días. En ese momento seguía luchando con sus capacidades cognitivas, pero al llegar a Houston se produjo otro milagro. 

“Quiero enseñar a la gente lo que he aprendido, tras 50 años de ministerio, sobre la soberanía de Dios, su misericordia y dar testimonio de Su grandeza”

Era el 23 de diciembre, su primer día en el hospital de rehabilitación. Cuando Marcos estaba sentado en la habitación con su esposa, comenzó a oír la voz de ella, que hablaba con coherencia y claridad, y comenzaron a tener su primera conversación en casi un mes. 

“¿Dónde estamos? preguntó Irma. 

“En el hospital”, respondió Marcos. 

“¿Estás enfermo?” respondió Irma, extrañada. 

“Tú eres la enferma”, dijo Marcos. 

Marcos empezó a explicar todo lo que había pasado. Su vuelta al auto para buscar algo. Su grito. La difícil travesía hasta llegar al hospital. Las agotadoras horas de espera, los médicos y enfermeras entrando y saliendo de la habitación, las oraciones… todo. 

Irma no recordaba nada. 

Ella permaneció en el hospital de rehabilitación hasta el 5 de enero, cuando los médicos le dieron el visto bueno para volver a casa y continuar con su terapia. Tras haber empezado a recuperar la mayor parte de sus facultades mentales, compartió continuamente el testimonio de lo que Dios había hecho en su vida con todo el personal médico que la atendía. Estaban asombrados de ver lo mucho que había progresado. 

“La misericordia y el amor de Dios están siempre con nosotros, así que cada vez que vayas a pasar por una prueba, cada vez que pases por un sufrimiento, sigue confiando en el Señor.”

Una nueva misión 

“Ahora aprovecho cualquier oportunidad para compartir mi testimonio”, dice Irma. “Quiero enseñar a la gente lo que he aprendido, tras 50 años de ministerio, sobre la soberanía de Dios, su misericordia y dar testimonio de Su grandeza”. 

Uno de esos testimonios ocurrió en febrero en la Conferencia Apoderados celebrada junto con la Conferencia anual Empower de la SBTC. Durante el evento, Irma conoció a una mujer que trabajaba en el mantenimiento de la iglesia anfitriona de la conferencia. 

Empezaron a hablar. Irma le explicó lo que estaba ocurriendo en la conferencia. La mujer compartió que, aunque su hijo, un seguidor de Cristo, la había invitado a la iglesia con frecuencia, ella personalmente aún no había tomado la decisión de seguir a Jesús. Aprovechando la oportunidad, Irma compartió el Evangelio con la mujer y la invitó a entregar su vida a Jesús allí mismo. Pero la mujer dijo que no estaba lista. 

Al día siguiente, Irma volvió a verla. “¿Estás lista?” le preguntó Irma. Esta vez, la mujer dijo que sí y oró para recibir a Cristo en ese instante. Irma la puso en contacto con un pastor para hacer un seguimiento. 

Seis meses después de que se retiraron a los bosques del este de Texas en busca de dirección para los próximos pasos de sus vidas, Dios ha concedido a Irma y Marcos una respuesta. Ellos están comenzando un ministerio hispano en la Iglesia Bautista Clay Road en Houston, ofreciendo clases de inglés como segundo idioma, visitando hogares del área y proveyendo ayuda comunitaria a aquellos que lo necesitan. Recientemente, Clay Road celebró un evento para la comunidad el Domingo de Resurrección donde Marcos predicó en inglés y en español. Irma está ministrando activamente a las esposas de pastores a través de la Red de Cuidado Pastoral Lone Star que ministró a su familia durante su recuperación. 

“La misericordia y el amor de Dios están siempre con nosotros”, dijo Marcos, “así que cada vez que vayas a pasar por una prueba, cada vez que pases por un sufrimiento, sigue confiando en el Señor, mantén tus ojos en Jesús, porque Él obra todo para bien”. 

Abundance Mindset

As his presidential term comes to an end, Bart Barber sees more on the horizon for Southern Baptists—more cooperation, more giving, and more people coming to know Jesus

Editor’s note: Bart Barber, pastor of First Baptist Church in Farmersville, will wrap up his two terms of service as president of the Southern Baptist Convention this month. At the end of a whirlwind two years, Barber spoke briefly with the Southern Baptist Texan about the impact his time as president has had on him personally and his prayer for the future of the SBC.

What are some of the exciting things you’re seeing God doing among Southern Baptist churches?

Bart Barber: Even while some other statistical indicators have gone in the other direction, baptisms have been higher recently. Across our nation, I’m encountering Southern Baptists who are deliberately and enthusiastically focused on evangelism. They are discovering that our culture is more open to the gospel than naysayers understand. A hedonistic world is not serving people well. So many of them know they need something else.

We are sharing the gospel. We are improving our churches’ approach to sexual abuse prevention and response. There’s a great attitude across the convention. We are less influenced by social media than we were a few years back. I’m always encouraged by the brotherly love and missional focus that is so evident among Southern Baptists.

How has being SBC president impacted you personally?

Barber: The more prominence any of us experiences, the more prominently our weaknesses will be put on display for others to see. If we are blessed, it will also allow us to see those flaws and weaknesses ourselves. That has been my experience over the past two years. Each of those moments has given me the opportunity to step into the refiner’s fire and burn away some of the dross. I’m very thankful for that. Also, I’ve grown to love more people and to love some people more dearly. I’ve seen our church do better than ever before in reaching our community and seen it do so with less of my time and attention than it has had in 25 years, which has helped me to see that God can work here without me.

What are you praying God would do in the SBC over the months and years to come?

Barber: For two years, I’ve prayed pretty regularly, “God, don’t let me do any foolish thing today that hurts the Southern Baptist Convention.” He has answered that prayer most days. I expect that I will pray it for the next guy regularly, too. I’m praying for God to renew in our hearts a commitment to cooperation, resulting in more money given through the Cooperative Program and more people called into missions and into local church ministry.

God knows who you are, and so do we

You probably didn’t know Sue Barrett. 

She would flutter around Trinity Baptist Church in Amarillo lighting up every space her feet touched. An encouraging word here. A kind smile and a hug there.

But when Sue’s name came across my desk a couple of months ago, it wasn’t because of any of those things. I learned those things afterward. Sue passed away on April 11 at the age of 89. On the exact day of her homegoing, she marked her 66th year not only as a member of her church, but as the teacher of the church’s 3- and 4-year-olds.  

Sixty-six years. 

Though she had no formal teacher training, Sue was adept at finding creative ways to teach the Bible to children. In a world that can feel tall and intimidating to little ones, Sue was a warm, safe place. She would sing happy birthday to them and send cards home telling them they were missed when they didn’t make it to church. She would frequently tell the children she loved them.

Because of that, said Melissa Raleigh, Trinity’s children’s director the past eight years, children—one generation after the next—became easily attached to her. “She just made them feel very, very special,” Raleigh said. “She was that way for her church family, as well.”

Sue was also politely stubborn. She drove her car until the very end and, when inclement weather would sweep into Amarillo, church staff had to beg her not to try to drive in. “She was just one of those people who was going to be there every time the doors were open,” Raleigh said.

No, you probably didn’t know Sue Barrett, but chances are, there’s someone like Sue in your church. Those men or women are precious to your church and they are certainly precious to the kingdom of God. They often do things nobody else wants to do and exhibit a faithfulness that is equal parts convicting and inspiring. The Sue in your church makes you say things like, “If they can do that at that age, then surely I can do that, too.”

You may even be the Sue in your church. One of the great things about the Sue in your church is that she doesn’t even know she’s the Sue, doesn’t want to be recognized as the Sue, and would probably be embarrassed to be recognized as such. The Sue in your church doesn’t want glory. She doesn’t hang around 3-year-olds for the glamour of it and she doesn’t do it for recognition. She just goes about her business, slowly and steadily, week after week, for the glory of God.

My intent here is not to exalt Sue—though her service is worthy of recognition. It’s to remind us to appreciate, both in our prayers and in words of gratitude, the meek servants—the quiet and unassumingly strong servants—God has placed in our churches. Their faithfulness should be a reminder of His faithfulness to provide us with all we need to achieve His purposes.

Those purposes are always eternal—so that others may know Jesus, and so that we may all one day stand before our Lord and hear the words I know Sue heard on April 11:

“Well done, good and faithful servant.”

3 Essential Leadership Lessons from Jesus

JESUS PROMISED HIS DISCIPLES thrones in which to judge the 12 tribes of Israel, and almost immediately, they started itching to get in them. In their excitement, they mistakenly told their friends and family. 

Just moments after Jesus predicted His trial, flogging, and crucifixion, the mother of James and John made her ambitious pitch for their promotions. She probably was not there when He predicted His death to the 12, yet her timing is horrible. As she grapples at Jesus’ feet for the top two thrones for her boys, His answer is directed entirely to James and John. The others are fuming, perhaps because the Zebedee boys beat them to the punch. 

In that moment, Jesus takes the opportunity to teach these future church leaders about servanthood and humility: “But Jesus called them over and said, ‘You know that the rulers of the Gentiles dominate them, and the men of high position exercise power over them’” (Matthew 20:25).

I see three essential leadership lessons here: 

1. Deal with problems as they arise 

Although this lesson was not overtly stated when Jesus called them together, it was clearly modeled in this teachable moment. Like cancer, conflict can grow and kill, especially when competition is a factor. Early detection is important and early surgery is imperative (Matthew 18:15). 

Imagine a world where pastors prefer collaboration over competition, clap for each other instead of clapping back at each other, build each other up publicly instead of tearing each other down privately, seek the interest of others first instead of themselves. There is no world in which every pastor agrees on every issue. However, Jesus made it crystal clear that His leaders should act distinguishably different than the power-grabbing Gentiles. 

2. Be a leader, not a lord 

Kingdom business should not be handled like secular business. Jesus describes us as children, not lords—slaves, not masters. When Martin Luther defended himself before the Roman church, a history-making moment known today as the Diet of Worms, the German monk stood alone, unintimidated and resolute. Just before Luther’s audience with the Pope, the cardinals, and the emperor, a friend moved alongside the maverick monk and asked, “Brother Martin, are you afraid?” Luther’s classic response was, “Greater than the Pope and all his cardinals, I fear most that great pope, self.” Ministry leaders can be the most dangerous people in the church. Our disposition determines whether we are a danger to God’s kingdom or Satan’s. 

3. Serve others before yourself 

“It must not be like that among you. On the contrary, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave; just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life—a ransom for many” (Matthew 20:26-28). 

Jesus put a quick end to their juvenile game of thrones. So should we. Pastoring is all about giving and serving, not lording and posturing. We are called to build other people up, which only works if we assume the posture of a slave. You and I should set the tone in our church, association, state convention, and the Southern Baptist Convention by grabbing a basin and a towel instead of a scepter and a throne. 

“For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted” (Luke 14:11).